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[–]H4TRR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I came here to say that I fully fully agree. The only reason I don't want Joe to be the bachelor is because I don't think if he gets on the show I will ever get a chance with him! (Cuz there is like no way I could handle the show in anyway) He truly blew my mind as a long term fan, like not to be creepy but I've always loved the bachelor but never dreamed I could be on the show . But since this season, and due to well.... the whole world... I feel like me and Joe would be a great couple! And im not trying to marry him right now just ask this man on a date! So now.... how do I make that happen?!?! #JoeParkClub

[–]2percentcowboy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I hope! My Dad always talked about how Asian representation when he was growing up was either fetishizing or dehumanizing and it always made him feel bad. Joe is such a good guy and him being an Asian American starring in a major television series would be really exciting

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    [–]rulenumberten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    His name is literally in the headline. Do better.

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    [–][deleted] 68 points69 points  (2 children)

    Joe is amazing. It's EXTREMELY evident, from the minimal screen time he's gotten, that he is a caring, considerate, intelligent, empathetic, and easy-going guy. I love his comments about staying out of the drama and just wanting to be friends with everyone. The way he handles himself is how a TRUE GROWN PERSON/MAN should and if I could, I'd give him that award myself.

    Edit: He handled the wrestling match like a champ... what a stand-up dude.

    I am a straight man who may be in love with Joe, haha.

    [–]Apero_ 11 points12 points  (1 child)

    "YOU ARE A REALLY! NICE! GUY!" 😂

    [–]H4TRR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Ugh he is TOO perfect for this show!! Like I hate to watch it and I just kinda doubt it'll be him.... just cuz that would be... a lot for ABC but hey! I am here to hope! And if more of us make noise maybe we can show ABC representation will actually HELP viewers.

    [–]quicktwistoftheknife 20 points21 points  (1 child)

    Definitely up for more Joe on my TV. ❤️ His ability to not take himself too seriously is pure gold. Such a beautiful, fun energy about him. And if anyone could outsmart producer manipulation, it's him.

    [–]H4TRR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    okay yes for sure, we all just want to watch Joe genuinely find love, not play games. LETS MAKE OUR OWN SHOW! He's in NYC..... maybe he's down to met some eligible IRL bachelorettes

    [–]uhimsydYou know what, Meredith 19 points20 points  (1 child)

    pre-panny made me chuckle

    [–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    It just makes me heart so happy to see Asian men getting love from everyone!! It’s something we don’t see a lot in not only the Bachelor world and but also just in general. Love seeing representation that is also well-received!

    [–]finstafoodlab 24 points25 points  (0 children)

    Upvoting so all the media will be reporting this tomorrow

    [–]fannynas 57 points58 points  (0 children)

    He cannot be the Bachelor because I plan to marry him. Ha.

    [–]takeittoredditsisthank you for your feedback 🌚 39 points40 points  (0 children)

    My husband and adorable children are great, but Joe would be the first bachelor that would make me wonder if i should quit my life and apply to be on the show

    [–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

    manifesting

    [–]_windowseatTake it to Reddit, sis 15 points16 points  (0 children)

    Pls yes

    [–]gomigirl123 25 points26 points  (1 child)

    JUSTICE FOR JOE

    [–]melenmelenAbout the dog!? 20 points21 points  (0 children)

    i would sign up asap

    [–][deleted] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

    He feels authentic in a way that is extremely refreshing and makes me feel invested in his "journey". I also feel like he would take the process very seriously.

    [–]HellfireMe 18 points19 points  (2 children)

    This is also how I felt about Venmo John but then he got to Paradise and the fella just couldn't make up his mind!

    [–]General_OrganaTeam Top Bunk 6 points7 points  (1 child)

    Joe feels a lot less socially awkward to me than Venmo John

    [–]tacohugplant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    agreed, Joe comes off as much more mature

    [–]croissant96 18 points19 points  (0 children)

    He would be the sweetest, most wholesome Hallmark bachelor ever and is the only thing that could warm my cold dead heart 💗

    [–]adm0210 16 points17 points  (0 children)

    He’s too pure for this series 😭

    [–]that0neweirdgirlClub Katie👸🏻 17 points18 points  (0 children)

    HIGH ENERGY 👍 He's the best of the bunch and he'd make a great Bachelor

    [–]Marvelous14 17 points18 points  (0 children)

    I wanna go on this one

    [–]coffee0verdose 16 points17 points  (0 children)

    I like him — I hate his hair

    [–][deleted] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

    I REALLY want to hear his take on being on this show, as a guy with a real job and clearly not trying to be an influencer. He looked like he wanted to get up and leave through all the Ed/Chasen drama.

    [–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

    He’s so charming and charismatic, while also having a good dose of self deprecating humor. The best.

    [–]DragonAdri🍎 Miss Michelle 🍎 18 points19 points  (0 children)

    Yes. Let's go Joe.

    [–]ntfandalwaysloser on reddit 😔 78 points79 points  (3 children)

    We don’t deserve Joe

    [–]strawberrypockystixOlder Jesus doesn't care 39 points40 points  (1 child)

    He’s like a unicorn. A genuine, cool, sweet, and funny guy who is just somehow single and not there for IG likes. I’ve loved his camera moments.

    [–]ntfandalwaysloser on reddit 😔 8 points9 points  (0 children)

    Ahahah I couldn’t have said it better myself

    [–]nuage420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    This is so true though.

    [–]mckatliClub Katie👸🏻 20 points21 points  (0 children)

    Here's the link to his insta if y'all wanna hand him a follow https://instagram.com/josephparkmd?igshid=18dyakzqcg1wt

    [–]recoveryrox 29 points30 points  (0 children)

    It’s the family picture in his pocket for me. I love him!!!

    [–]strawberrypockystixOlder Jesus doesn't care 17 points18 points  (0 children)

    Joe is straightup adorable! I loved his intimidation bit. 😂

    [–]EveningJellyfish1natasha nation 26 points27 points  (14 children)

    To be honest, I really like Joe, but I would be curious to know what made an anesthesiologist want to go on a show like the Bachelor.

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Representation is a big thing.

    There was this guy Yul Kwon who also was achieving big things and his reason was that when growing up, he never saw Asian men represented, and when they show up on tv as emasculated, unattractive, subhuman weirdos. Thats the only Asian men that are accepted in the media: Ken Jeongs and William Hungs.

    To actual have a human being portrayed here is what most Asian dudes crave for. So I can understand why such an overachiever would participate here. If you aren't represented properly, it is on you to change that.

    [–]Gigihippielove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I looked him up—he finished his fellowship which is the last of his training right before filming. So he took his first real opportunity to take a break in probably ten years to get a vacation and maybe fall in love. Good call!

    [–][deleted] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

    He was on the covid front lines in NYC.. I could see going on the bachelor as a break from that bleakness.

    [–]Khvleesi 31 points32 points  (0 children)

    Maybe he is someone open to new experiences, which is pretty cool. There's more to life than a career.

    [–]Itsallpsych 15 points16 points  (4 children)

    Why not? I’m in school to get my doctorate in psychology and I would definitely go on the bachelor (especially if somehow Bennett’s is the next one)

    [–]EveningJellyfish1natasha nation 11 points12 points  (3 children)

    Being in your twenties in school is much different than being a 30-something practicing physician. All I said was I would be curious to know why he in particular went on the show.

    [–]Itsallpsych 6 points7 points  (2 children)

    Eh if one keeps failing in relationships and doesn’t have much luck why not? It’ll be a cool little adventure and can help you learn more about yourself, get out there, and figure out what you really want in a relationship.

    [–]Alternative_Treaclefull flaccid wiener on the beach 36 points37 points  (0 children)

    More Joe! I hate that he doesn’t get air time.

    [–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

    Skip the bachelor and go straight to marrying me ☺️

    [–]icy_kat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

    Sad we aren’t seeing more of him

    [–]tammyartistSo Genuine and Real 9 points10 points  (0 children)

    Yes please!!!!!

    [–]bumbumboop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

    I’m so down.

    [–]chewieandtheporgsMany of you know me as a chiropractor 20 points21 points  (0 children)

    Literally the ideal bachelor

    [–]leezybelle 17 points18 points  (0 children)

    He is fiiiiine

    [–]bug_gribbleBlack Lives Matter 39 points40 points  (7 children)

    I wish but Mike was great on paper too and they skipped over him... for Peter... and Matt :\

    [–]Marvelous14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    I wanted mike so bad

    [–]recoveryrox 7 points8 points  (5 children)

    Was it ever revealed what the big secret was about him? Something ABC couldn’t get past, I think it was Rachel that said it.

    [–]takeittoredditsisthank you for your feedback 🌚 5 points6 points  (3 children)

    I’m pretty sure the secret is that he’s Black with Black family and friends and Matt is Black with a white mom and white vest friend.

    [–]lettuce-be-cereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I think his thirsty behavior after the show was off-putting. Of course, he's not the only one! But specifically, the way he's been trying to date high-profile celebs seems pushy and fame hungry. Like when he went on several dates with Demi Lovato and immediately went to the press to leak personal details, like what it was like kissing (and "exploring") her. And how he asked out Keke Palmer when he was a guest on her show and she said it made her feel uncomfortable and ambushed.

    [–]recoveryrox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Lol probably. But he is also a veteran and white suburban ladies love their vets.

    [–]bug_gribbleBlack Lives Matter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    🐸☕

    [–]bug_gribbleBlack Lives Matter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Hmm not sure if it was ever revealed :\

    [–]cball6 43 points44 points  (0 children)

    I really want Joe to be bachelor. I love seeing his personality on Instagram. He has a real job, doesn’t seem to be aiming to be an influencer, and has a great sense of humor. Also he’s really hot! Wish they showed him more on the show so he could really get that backing from the general audience.

    [–]shaylaa30 8 points9 points  (0 children)

    Yes please yes! He’s the total package.

    [–]oliviamarie416 15 points16 points  (0 children)

    he’s one of my faves!!!!!!! why is he not getting enough credit???? HES AN ANESTHESIOLOGIST!!!!!!

    [–]strawberrypockystixOlder Jesus doesn't care 15 points16 points  (0 children)

    I’m so annoyed they didn’t show Joe more during the group date!!

    [–]wolverineswagboi13Team Chris Harrison the Dog Babysitter 11 points12 points  (0 children)

    TEAM JOE

    [–]beets_bears_bubblegmAdams Administration 12 points13 points  (1 child)

    PANNY! Oh I’m so using that for now on 😭😭

    [–]recoveryrox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Lol me too

    [–]howyadoinjerryAdams Administration 31 points32 points  (1 child)

    I tried to resist this train but I love him more and more every time i see more of him, I would love to see him as the bachelor 🥺

    [–]Apero_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    CHOO CHOOOOO

    [–]annamosa 16 points17 points  (3 children)

    my butt is CLEANCHED i am SO UNCOMFY

    [–]ConeOfFame 9 points10 points  (2 children)

    When you clench your clean butt

    [–]annamosa 7 points8 points  (1 child)

    oh my god i meant to post this on the main live episode thread hahahhaa and was obviously in the throes of uncomfy

    [–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (1 child)

    I’m suspicious of any man who is into social media so he’s my favorite for that reason alone

    [–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Uhhhh why any man?

    [–]kimkelliesI definitely feel like I just met my husband. 17 points18 points  (0 children)

    He’s sexy

    [–]Bladewing_The_RisenChris Harrison is a WEENIE 🌭 6 points7 points  (8 children)

    Anyone listen to Rachel Lindsay's other podcast, "Higher Learning"? Her co-host, Van Lathan, has never seen the Bachelorette until this season. He is all about promoting people of color and giving them a platform... but even he LOVES BENNETT.

    BENNETT FOR BACHELOR!

    Joe is cool too, but I feel like giving him the job would be doing so simply to say "We had an Asian bachelor." Coming hot off the heals of being able to say "We had a black bachelor," I somehow feel like TPTB are going to want to win back their suburban white women.

    [–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (2 children)

    I actually think Bennett is funny and charming too, but (and no offense to Bennett) we have seen him SO MANY TIMES. They’re trying to give him this quirky, care-free edit, but he’s just a rehash of Bachelors from the early aughts. A ~fun~ version, but a version nonetheless.

    I don’t want Joe to just be “the first Asian bachelor(!!!!)” which is why I didn’t mention that in my post. Naturally TPTB would take that and run with it, I mean the only time we have really heard him speak was when Margaret Cho was on....which I won’t get into.

    I understand the implications of the “suburban viewer” and so do they and that’s why I’d be so excited for them to do a greater service to these viewers by showing that there is excellence beyond whatever this prototype (white (until recently), rich (likely legacy money), tall, occasionally hot) of The Bachelor is that they have created. If it’s “too far for America.” to see an AMERICAN LEAD who is a doctor who worked during the early onset of the COVID crisis portrayed as a love interest I gotta give a BIG EYE ROLL to America.

    I am not trying to be combative. I can see your point of view and I imagine many people feel this way.

    [–]souroversweetYou know what, Meredith 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Joe has a lot of amazing qualities. And you make a good point, he is a doctor during covid so he’s in a very respectable career. Joe for bachelor 2022? I approve!

    [–]lookwht23TAXI! 🚕 18 points19 points  (0 children)

    Idk Bennett is getting a quasi villain edit. Very Hannah Anne like

    [–]isyournamesummer🍎 Miss Michelle 🍎 15 points16 points  (2 children)

    “Win back their suburban white women” have they lost that population Yet?

    [–]Bladewing_The_RisenChris Harrison is a WEENIE 🌭 9 points10 points  (1 child)

    Two POC in a row has to be pushing it. Three might be too far for America right now.

    I mean, 73 million people just voted for a guy who told the Proud Boys to stand by.

    [–]isyournamesummer🍎 Miss Michelle 🍎 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    ugh so true, my heart just fell in my butt with that fact

    [–]isyournamesummer🍎 Miss Michelle 🍎 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    Yah and i think that’s all TPTB appears to be about is that population. I know Bennett is on this season but i wonder how wide his dating palate is compared to Joe’s. Honestly a successful minority - i.e., Matt James - can win over the white suburban woman population. We will see what Van says if joe gets more screen time tonight regarding his options of Bennett as well!

    [–]jdbxcv 48 points49 points  (0 children)

    My Asian ass would absolutely love to see Joe as the next bachelor 😍

    [–]picard17disgruntled female 45 points46 points  (1 child)

    Not to be overstate it or anything, but Joe is my favourite contestant they've ever had on the show, exactly my type and I would actually consider applying if he was going to be the bachelor (not that I'd ever get cast for a variety of reasons haha)... so of course it'll never happen. They'll pick someone like Ben.

    [–]fannynas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

    I just slid into his DMs. That's how much he's my type.

    [–]Good-Presentation816Excuse you what? 26 points27 points  (0 children)

    Please give us an Asian Bachelor!

    [–]dwight_k_schrute69lovable dingbat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    You had me at Joe!

    [–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (3 children)

    I would love to see him as the lead, but unless he makes a splash in Paradise, he hasn't had enough screen time to rally everyone around him 😟

    [–]myee28disgruntled female 9 points10 points  (0 children)

    Didn’t need to read the rest of it, HELL YES

    [–]BenHigginsPornoTruth 17 points18 points  (0 children)

    I would love if TPTB were "inclusive" enough to actually show him on my screen for two seconds during the show. Currently have no idea what he looks like, but I will google.

    [–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

    I want him as bachelor. I think he’s great and has a enough self deprecation to humble him with the experience. Please Bach producers. Please! Give us an Asian bachelor!!!!!

    [–]chosenchurrosupporting from afar 🧛‍♀️ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

    I feel like I have to put my good word in because of my flair :)

    He always seemed cool, but sharing his notes for the roast did it for me. He is observant, has a good sense of humor, and can be self-deprecating. In addition to all his other great qualities on paper.

    Justice for Joe!

    [–]scintillacaramel 15 points16 points  (0 children)

    pre panny i'm dead

    [–]llcuulj 51 points52 points  (0 children)

    in 2017, Joe was listed as one of the most eligible doctors in NYC on dating apps! TPTB would really be fumbling the bag to not secure him as Bachelor

    https://www.businessinsider.com/most-eligible-doctors-medical-professionals-nyc-hinge-2017-7

    [–]lionhearted318MATT IS A JESTER 23 points24 points  (0 children)

    Yes, a thousand times yes. I know it won't happen, but I'd love it.

    [–]acceberinorlovable dingbat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

    I keep seeing people comment about people from Clare/Tayshia's season being "set up" to be the bachelor (not you, OP, just commenters in general) but I'm confused...obviously we already have a bachelor for this year, so wouldn't the bachelor following Matt not even be considered from this group of guys, most likely? They'll be primarily looking at the guys from next year's season of The Bachelorette...

    [–]shoosleryou sound actually ridiculous 39 points40 points  (0 children)

    someone gonna scoop him up soon and i hope it’s one of us sliding in his DMs 😂

    [–]bi-drgn 24 points25 points  (2 children)

    He's the whole package (from what I've seen) & if I weren't in a committed relationship, I'd sign up for a Joe Park Bachelor season in a HEARTBEAT

    [–]Apero_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Yeeeep same

    [–]opinionatedhoeChampagne Stealer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I’d probably be in his DMs right now tbh

    [–]tattooedtapirWoke Police 20 points21 points  (0 children)

    LOVE Joe! Sporty, does origami, frontline COVID fighter? Truly could not ask for more.

    [–]tweenblobmy WIFE 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    Yes!!! I was thinking the same thing! Justice for Joe!!!

    [–]pinksweepsDon't insult my intelligence, DEREK 273 points274 points  (4 children)

    Is no one commenting on “pre-panny”??? Because I almost spit out my drink at that

    [–]howlongwillbetoolong 11 points12 points  (0 children)

    That sent me!! 🤣🤣🤣

    [–]tmp803 16 points17 points  (0 children)

    Lol same. Choked on my Crunchwrap

    [–]recombobulation_area 11 points12 points  (0 children)

    lmao saaaame

    [–]aafreeda🌹 42 points43 points  (0 children)

    I honestly couldnt read past that, I was laughing tok hard. Turned into a mix between fanny and granny in my mind. Still laughing right now.

    [–]callherdaddyfanfuck it, im off contract 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    Nahhhh Bennett is where it’s at

    [–]babin1234Clarky & The Queen 20 points21 points  (0 children)

    They picked Clare because of a tweet that put the thought in one of TPTB’s heads. Maybe if we all tweet about Joe it will happen!!!

    [–]whyamihererere🥵 Who tf is Kyle?! 🥵 49 points50 points  (0 children)

    SCREAM IT IN ALL CAPS!!!

    JOEFORBACHELOR

    [–]leladypayneDregs of Society 30 points31 points  (0 children)

    Seriously! Can we at least get #JOEFORSCREENTIME this man is gold.

    [–]GeneLowerAdams Administration 16 points17 points  (0 children)

    if matt can be bachelor so can joe

    [–]EmigsTeam Women Supporting Women 33 points34 points  (0 children)

    JoeforBachelor

    [–]-Avira 13 points14 points  (8 children)

    I don't want it for him just because I KNOW some girls out there would be gold digging enough to go for him, or if not, get the influencer life out of it.

    [–]thetrain23Tyler C's Alt Account 11 points12 points  (0 children)

    I guarantee you any anesthesiologist out there who's still single at that age can sniff that out like my dog sniffs out bacon

    [–]stepstools_are_mybff 5 points6 points  (1 child)

    I feel like lots of guys at that level though can sense who is a gold digger. That’s why lots of established men marry fellow doctors, lawyers, etc.

    [–]-Avira 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    That's true. My significant other is a PA and I'm a budding CPA candidate (making peanuts in the beginning). He's wary of gold diggers, but I dated him before he became a PA. But you just never know imo.

    [–]aafreeda🌹 17 points18 points  (4 children)

    ...isnt that what they already do?

    [–]-Avira 7 points8 points  (3 children)

    His job makes 3 times more than what the last Bachelor (Peter Weber) makes. I'm not saying it's okay, I'm just saying 600k is more attractive than 185k. Just my personal opinion

    [–]shoosleryou sound actually ridiculous 2 points3 points  (2 children)

    goooooodamn i need to find or become an anesthesiologist

    [–]-Avira 3 points4 points  (1 child)

    Nah honey, you can make your own dough. A strong woman can do anything

    [–]whateverwhatever1235 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    or become an anesthesiologist

    [–]catlady555 149 points150 points  (2 children)

    I WISH. Asian bachelor would be just AMAZING.

    Thank you for making this post and I think we should continue to be loud about it if possible. Follow him on IG. Being loud about Grocery Store Joe made TPTB pay attention.

    [–]tweenblobmy WIFE 29 points30 points  (1 child)

    He only has like 7K followers? I just followed him. Follow him world! Let’s make it happen

    [–]kokopelliieyesfuck it, im off contract 25 points26 points  (0 children)

    I was kind of annoyed when I saw that he wasn't very active on Instagram...and then I realized that he posts like a regular person who isn't gunning to be an influencer! Also, he is hilarious and I love the relationships he has formed with the other guys. I am hopeful we will see some longterm friendships out of this season!

    [–]mamachuy 54 points55 points  (0 children)

    A Korean doctor! I’m engaged now, but my parents would totally have approved of me going on reality TV for this.

    [–]kerowack88Excuse you what? 20 points21 points  (0 children)

    I wish. If only he got more screen time. He definitely caught my eye when the cast list was announced. Gives me Sean Lowe season vibes (as in I imagine it would be based around an actual love story opposed to incessant petty drama)

    [–]cutetoboot1disgruntled female 46 points47 points  (0 children)

    Lmao I didn't leave my boyfriend for Matt James season but if Joe's Bachelor..... see ya hunny!!!

    [–]TheMoustacheLady 10 points11 points  (0 children)

    YES YES please

    [–]Kissyu 30 points31 points  (0 children)

    Its a long shot but ill apply for sure!!!

    [–]imnotcreative415Petekachu⚡️ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

    Upvote

    [–]Chickenoreomilk 60 points61 points  (0 children)

    Looking at his resume, if he were white he would have gotten a bachelor edit or at least enough for paradise.