requests are mostly open, check the carrd!

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faq - please read!

firstly, i want to link a few resources:

ezgender’s carrds on the basics of mogaixenogenders, neurogenders, and coining mogai terms

my deviantart for flag templates and symbols

the pride-flags deviantart, which has a ton of high-res flags for older mogai terms and more flag templates/symbols

pronoun-provider’s lists of neopronouns divided by theme (this page hasn’t been updated in a while, but it does have a ton of pronoun sets to peruse through!)

a list of other mogai blogs i enjoy that i try to update as new blogs pop up

and now on to the faq!

q: is this blog fake? are you a troll? is this satire? do you actually believe mogai is valid/real?
a: no, no, no, and yes!

q: what do you use to make your flags/edits?
a: gimp on desktop!

q: how often does the queue post?
a: 2 times daily, though i do up it to 3-4 daily when i can.

q: what requests are open? what kinds of requests do you do?
a: check out this page, it has all the requests i currently do and which ones are open/closed! you can also reach this page by opening my carrd and clicking the button that says ‘neopronouns’.

q: are you alright with requests involving [insert identity]?
a: if it’s not on this list, the answer is more than likely yes!

q: are you alright with requests related to [insert source]?
a: same as above - check this list, and if it isn’t there, the answer is more than likely yes!
a2: if you’re concerned for a specific reason (content in the source, something the creator did, etc) i’d appreciate if you could include that in your ask!

q: did you receive [insert request]?
a: try to wait at least a week or so before asking this! i don’t mind answering, but i don’t always queue requests super quickly, so i may not have answered your request yet because i’m busier than usual.
a2: if i say that i didn’t get your request, you can send it in again no matter if requests are open or not! i don’t want to make someone wait till the next time the inbox is open just because tumblr glitched and didn’t send their ask.

q: when will my request be posted?
a: at some point! the queue isn’t set at a super high number so that if i hit a period where i’m very busy, i don’t have to feel anxious about the queue running out. that means that it could take a while to see your requests, but i promise, you will see them!

q: can you tag [insert thing]?
a: yes, i’ll try my hardest to remember!

q: can i use one of your edits for [my icon/my carrd/etc]?
a: yes!! i’d prefer if you credited me somewhere if you do.

q: can you use [insert version of a flag] for [insert identity] in my request?
a: yep, just make sure to either include it in the ask or send another ask afterwards specify which flag you’d like!

q: [insert nice thing]
a: i love you dearly and your ask will sit in my inbox forever along with all the other incredibly sweet asks i’ve received over the course of this blog. i apologize for not answering kind asks, i just really like being able to scroll to the bottom of the inbox and see all the love there!

q: [insert argument against one of my opinions]
a: i’ll more than likely block you, but if i’m in the right mood or you’re egregiously uneducated on the topic, i’ll answer it.

q: [insert rude/mocking thing about me, my blog, and/or mogai]
a: asks like this accomplish nothing and don’t bother me. again, you’re either getting blocked or i’ll just make fun of you/be rude to you back.

Pinned Post dexter.txt faq

amplusianvague/amplusvague: a gender that is mostly or around amplusian, but is only approximate due to one’s neurodivergence causing difficulties defining their gender. basically, a gender that one can approximate is in some way fluid, flux, or otherwise non-strict/stable, but their neurodivergence makes it difficult for them to define it fully.

for anon!

amplusianvague amplusvague amplusian gendervague neurogender my flags new flag new term mogai flag mogai term mogai
gendersea
goth-blaze

Idealgender

Definition: Ideally, you would identify or exist as one or more gender(s), though due to your awareness of your present gender(s), you know you aren’t that/those gender(s). Your yearning to be this gender may fluctuate, but it is typically still present. You may similarly feel this/these gender(s) at certain points, though those moments do not last.

This term is to only be used by trans, nonbinary, or other individuals who are not cis. This is explicitly said as I fear this term may exacerbate internalized transphobia or otherwise harm those individuals. 

Specific usages of the term may be phrased like “idealgender boy” or “idealgenboy.”

Feel free to send me an ask/DM if you have questions or suggestions. :) 

goth-blaze

@neopronouns@libragender

gendersea

@neopronouns

Source: goth-blaze
interesting!! idealgender

Anonymous asked:

i have a question; i am genderfae but most of the time i feel non-binary, can i use nb icons if its not fully who i am? theres this very pretty nb icon i wanna use but it might not be correct </3

of course! genderfae is a nonbinary identity (as the majority of neogenders are), the nonbinary flag and pride things made using it are yours to use!

thepokedexisgay

Anonymous asked:

can you help me with a labeling thing? i'm nonbinary and i feel closest to the labels nonbinary, demi girl, and cat gender. i'm also queer, and even though i'm afab and demi girl i feel like my attraction to men is gay? like i'm just me but i know people (esp guys) wouldn't really consider me guy adjacent and i'm just like. 0_o? i love men in a very queer way but like. tdlr. is it ok for someone who's girl adjacent to call their love for masc genders gay?

neopronouns answered:

if you feel that fits, absolutely! you could also be attracted to men in a queer way without it necessarily being gay, so if you feel that queer fits you better, you can also use that!

thepokedexisgay

There are also the shadoworientations (this sounds like shadowfloric/shadowvincian to me)

I believe you can find information about all of them @ashix0trender0juice

neopronouns

oh yeah, i didn’t even think about those! anon, you may like shadowfloric (coined as shadowvincian, but i prefer not to use that to mean ‘gay man’ specifically, though it’s your decision which you prefer), which includes:

  1. someone who is not specifically ‘mlm’ due to not (always) being a man, but feels like their attraction to men is gai, gay, or just not straight
  2. someone who is dysphoric or uncomfortable with being called or though of as a man/boy, but their attraction to men (nlm, wlm, xlm, etc) is connected to the floric/turian/gay man label
  3. basically, anyone who is not a man and does not label their attraction as mlm due to a disconnection between themselves and manhood, but still feels floric
Source: neopronouns
q power

Anonymous asked:

what about cavusgender? thats a gender that changes when one's depressed, but im not sure if thats the same as fluctuating

ye, that would be more fluid than fluctuating! generally, flux genders change in intensity over time rather than changing between genders without a sort of in-between stage

Anonymous asked:

can you help me with a labeling thing? i'm nonbinary and i feel closest to the labels nonbinary, demi girl, and cat gender. i'm also queer, and even though i'm afab and demi girl i feel like my attraction to men is gay? like i'm just me but i know people (esp guys) wouldn't really consider me guy adjacent and i'm just like. 0_o? i love men in a very queer way but like. tdlr. is it ok for someone who's girl adjacent to call their love for masc genders gay?

if you feel that fits, absolutely! you could also be attracted to men in a queer way without it necessarily being gay, so if you feel that queer fits you better, you can also use that!

q power

Anonymous asked:

i think i might have said the same thing a few weeks back–your carrd isn't loading for me and i think i might have requested something that's closed atm. if i did, i'm really sorry!

hmm, it sucks that my carrd isn’t working for you - rn the only things that are closed are in-depth pronoun/term searches and pronoun flags