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Anonymous asked:

Same anon, another question: I consider myself to be more cisn’t than non-binary (even though I have non binary identities🙂) could I still call myself gai?

yes! you don’t have to strictly identify as nonbinary to be gai, just as long as you’re not 100% binary and feel that your atrraction is gay in a not-binary way, gai is open to you to use!

Anonymous asked:

im not trolling and im sorry if this looks this way but--- can i still call myself a lesbian if im genderfluid and the only masc genders i experience are nonvir and nanomasc? i also dont consider myself a man at all. if anything, i consider myself slighty masculine sometimes

yes! lesbians can be genderfluid, agender, multigender - hell, i know several lesbians who do experience male genders in their genderfluidity. as long as you’re comfortable calling yourself a lesbian, you’re valid

Anonymous asked:

Question: what does it mean to be a mspec gai?

it refers to someone who is both mspec (multispec, meaning attracted to more than one gender) and gai (gay in a nonbinary way)! this could mean any number of things - being gai for multiple genders, being gai in one form of attraction and mspec in another (ex: biromantic and sexually gai), being attracted to multiple genders and gai for at least one, etc.

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[Image ID: Three flags with seven horizontal stripes. The first flag’s colors from top to bottom are teal, dark green, green-ish gray, green, green-ish gray, dark green, and teal.

The second flag’s colors are muted pink, dark red, reddish gray, red, reddish gray, dark red, and muted pink.

The third flag’s colors are blue, dark purple, purple-ish gray, purple, peele purple-ish grey, dark purple, and blue. End ID.]

Viragender (first flag): a gender that is only agender/genderless and has connections to manhood or is otherwise related to being a men in some way. Viragender is not male or multigender, it’s AGIN. Examples include solarian/male-aligned* and mlm, mlw, and/or mln agender/genderless people.

Eragender (second flag): a gender that is only agender/genderless and has connections to womanhood or is otherwise related to women in some way. Eragender is not female or multigender, it’s AGIN. Examples include lunarian/female-aligned* and wlw, wlm, and/or wln agender/genderless people.

Linagender (third flag): a gender that is only agender/genderless and has connections to manhood and womanhood or is otherwise related to men and women in some way. Linagender is not fe/male or multigender, it’s AGIN. Examples include eclipsian/female+male-aligned* agender/genderless people and those who experience attraction like both men and woman in some way.

Similar terms: discon non-binary, (wo)man-related, offgender

*I mean alignment in the original sense of the terms, not what it has evolved to mean. If possible, link this page when sharing these genders.

Mentioning just in case: Genderfluid/Genderflux people are definitely welcome to use these terms. As long as you’re genderless sometimes, you can use them.

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