'I didn't think it was a big deal!' Seven Year Switch star says she's 'surprised' that her husband thinks she crossed a boundary by SHARING A BED with her temporary spouse

  • Liliya admits she is surprised her husband Tony is upset that she would allow her temporary spouse Aaron share a bed with her, so he wouldn't end up on the floor
  • In a preview clip for Tuesday night's episode of the FYI reality series, Aaron tells Liliya that Tony 'made it very clear that was a boundary not to cross'
  • Meanwhile, Aaron is upset to learn that his wife Heather questions whether he even misses her during the two week experiment  

By Erica Tempesta For Dailymail.com

Published: 15:44 EST, 6 February 2017 | Updated: 15:48 EST, 6 February 2017

A Seven Year Switch participant is shocked to learn that her husband believes she went to far when she allowed her temporary spouse share a hotel bed with her — just so he wouldn't have to sleep on the floor.

In a preview clip for Tuesday night's episode of the FYI reality series, Aaron reports back to his experimental wife Liliya after meeting with her husband Tony and answering his questions about their sleeping arrangements.

Although Aaron tells Liliya that he made it clear to Tony that she only said she would be 'okay' with sharing a bed with him in 'extreme situations', he admits her spouse was still upset.

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Really? Liliya admits she's surprised her husband Tony is upset that she would share a bed with her temporary spouse Aaron in a preview clip for Tuesday's episode of Seven Year Switch

Really? Liliya admits she's surprised her husband Tony is upset that she would share a bed with her temporary spouse Aaron in a preview clip for Tuesday's episode of Seven Year Switch

Extreme situation? The ER doctor only suggested that she and Aaron share a bed when they were at a hotel in Ojai because he would have to sleep on the stone floor otherwise.

Extreme situation? The ER doctor only suggested that she and Aaron share a bed when they were at a hotel in Ojai because he would have to sleep on the stone floor otherwise.

'He made it very clear that was a boundary not to cross,' Aaron explains. 

Ironically, Liliya was initially upset that Tony agreed to wear a wedding band to signify his commitment to his experimental marriage to Aaron's wife Heather, but she didn't understand why he would be upset with her. 

The ER doctor only allowed Aaron to hop in bed with her during their getaway to Ojai because he would have to sleep on the stone floor otherwise.  

'I was kind of surprised because I honestly didn't even think that was a big deal,' she tells the cameras. 

Too far for him: Aaron says he made it clearly that she only suggested she would do it in an 'extreme situation', but he tells her that Tony said it was a 'boundary not be crossed'
Too far for him: Aaron says he made it clearly that she only suggested she would do it in an 'extreme situation', but he tells her that Tony said it was a 'boundary not be crossed'

Too far for him: Aaron says he made it clearly that she only suggested she would do it in an 'extreme situation', but he tells her that Tony said it was a 'boundary not be crossed' 

Meanwhile, Tony tells Heather that during his first meeting with Aaron, he warned him that Heather isn't going to be the same person she was before they started the experiment.  

'I definitely tried to reiterate the fact that switch family has changed us and has changed you to want to make yourself happy, and that he should be prepared to have a different Heather,' he explains.

Heather is clearly happy with how her temporary husband handled the situation, and she smiles while saying: 'Way to go Tony.' 

When it is Liliya's turn to tell Aaron about her meeting with Heather, she pulls out a list of things they talked about. 

Get ready: Tony tells Heather that during his first meeting with Aaron, he warned him that Heather isn't going to be the same person she was before they started the experiment 

Get ready: Tony tells Heather that during his first meeting with Aaron, he warned him that Heather isn't going to be the same person she was before they started the experiment 

'Way to go!' Heather is clearly happy that her temporary husband told Aaron that she is expecting him to change 

'Way to go!' Heather is clearly happy that her temporary husband told Aaron that she is expecting him to change 

'She is enjoying the experiment. It's taught her to find her voice, and she is going to be making some changes,' Liliya says, and Aaron immediately wants to know what changes Heather plans on making.  

'She wants more compromise on your end. You don't look comfortable when I say that,' Liliya notes. 'She is ready to come back to your marriage with more of a voice, you know?'

However, Aaron finds himself frustrated by what he is hearing, and angrily asks: 'When the f**k did she not have a voice?'

'When did I not take her opinion into consideration?' he continues. 'When did she not feel important enough to tell me how she feels, and for me to show her that I value how she feels?'

Hard to handle: Liliya also warns Aaron that Heather is getting ready to come back to their marriage with 'more of a voice' 

Hard to handle: Liliya also warns Aaron that Heather is getting ready to come back to their marriage with 'more of a voice' 

'It's hurtful for me': Aaron is visibly upset when Liliya reveals that Heather started to tear up because she didn't think he missed her 

'It's hurtful for me': Aaron is visibly upset when Liliya reveals that Heather started to tear up because she didn't think he missed her 

Things only get worse when Liliya adds that Heather started to tear up because she didn't think that Aaron missed her. 

Aaron admits that he feels gutted that Heather is even questioning whether he misses or her not.   

'It's like for almost 10 years now you have been feeling like you have just been unloved and not appreciated,' he says of Heather. 'I mean how could you be so blind to seeing that what I am doing is actually love for you?'

'In a week's time a complete stranger has been able to have an emotional [relationship] and provoke an emotional response from my wife and it's hurtful for me,' he tells Liliya. 

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