I’m a bisexual boy. But I have a preference for men. I’m also frayromantic (?) with women (Losing feelings for someone after getting close with them.).
I told my older cousin this (she is a lesbian) and she told me that I’m not bisexual, I’m gay. I know I’m not gay because although a romantic relationship with a women would never work out, I still feel deep romantic/sexual attraction to them before that.
We went back and forth and then she got angry with me and said that I have internalized homophobia and kept saying that I’m actually gay.
Idk what to think. She is a full on lesbian and has been one since before I was even born so I feel like she would know more about the community than I do.