How can I encourage my baby's sense of humour?

It might surprise you to know that your baby is born with a sense of humour, and it can be a powerful tool in the bonding process. When you laugh with your baby, you’re showing him that you understand his thoughts and feelings.

When your baby laughs, you both share an intense moment that is so pleasurable you want to do it again, and again. Just as your baby cries to make something stop, he laughs to make something continue.

In the first few weeks, it can be hard to share funny moments with your baby. At this stage, he’ll probably spend a large part of his time sleeping or feeding. You may also be feeling tired or a bit emotional in these early weeks.

However, as your baby’s wakeful times extend, he’ll become more open to play and fun. Your baby may start smiling at around six weeks, and you may hear his first laugh at around four months.

You can encourage your baby’s sense of humour by noticing and repeating what he finds funny. At about three months, your baby may enjoy gentle tickling rhymes and games. Playing several times in a row with your baby will mean that he starts to anticipate the final tickle, which just adds to his enjoyment!

As your baby grows, he’ll also enjoy other physical humour such as being bumped up and down on your knee, having raspberries blown on his tummy or being turned upside down. As always, keep an eye on your baby so that you can stop when he’s had enough.

From about eight months, one of your baby’s favourite games will probably be peekaboo. He’ll love the repetition and anticipation of the big reveal. Try playing it after bathtime, hiding your baby’s face or your own with a towel. In time, your baby may even start playing it with you!

If you don’t think that you’re very good at playing, don’t let this put you off. Just give yourself time with your baby and he’ll soon bring out the fun in you.

As with adults, babies have different temperaments. Some babies laugh very easily while others take a bit more work. If your baby is more of a serious little one, make sure that you continue to share moments together. This will enhance your bond and will make the laughter even more precious when it eventually comes.