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Not Pregnant Paperback – November 8, 2016

by Cathie Quillet (Author), Dr. Shannon Sutherland (Author)

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Maybe you have suffered a miscarriage. Maybe you have been told you cannot have children. Maybe you have followed every bit of advice from every doctor and self-help book, but you still aren’t seeing that pink plus sign.

Many women face the disheartening struggle of infertility in silence. Between the feelings of shame, the strain on marriages, and the loads of money spent on medicines and failed procedures, they don’t want to admit what they often see as a personal flaw: that they cannot bear children.

After four miscarriages and years of infertility, Cathie Quillet felt stuck and alone in her negative emotions. In Not Pregnant, Quillet offers a place for women who are experiencing infertility to come together, validate their emotions, and let go of their pain. This motivational and comforting book addresses

• infertility’s effects on sex and marriage,

• handling the public’s general ignorance about infertility,

• miscarriages,

• the plethora of emotions experienced,

• hormonal changes with fertility medications, and

• how to move on with your life.

With real stories from women who have been there and an added scientific perspective from ob-gyn Dr. Shannon Sutherland, Not Pregnant is the emotional companion you need when it seems like no one else gets it.

Find other resources from Cathie: https://www.tennesseereproductivetherapy.com/navigatinginfertility

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Cathie Quillet has been working with couples for years as an independent marriage and family therapist. Unable to have children, Quillet is familiar with all of the complexities of the infertile journey. Not Pregnant is a compilation of tough lessons she learned and what no one warns you about when standing face-to-face with infertility. In addition, Quillet collaborated with her ob-gyn, Dr. Shannon Sutherland, to further explain the medical side of infertility.

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Publisher ‏ : ‎ CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (November 8, 2016)
Language ‏ : ‎ English
Paperback ‏ : ‎ 240 pages
ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 153463990X
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1534639904
Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 0.022 ounces
Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.55 x 8.5 inches

Best Sellers Rank: #402,185 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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- #1,066 in Love & Loss
- #1,769 in Death & Grief (Books)

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Customers find the book relatable and provides validation of emotional experiences. They also say it's a great book for those battling with infertility and the grief behind it. Readers describe the reading experience as amazing and easy.

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12 customers mention "Relatability"12 positive0 negative

Customers find the book relatable, providing validation of emotional experiences of infertility. They also appreciate the author's use of real-life experiences and conversation to relate.

"...It’s reassuring to hear other peoples stories and motivations, and helps me realize I’m not alone...." Read more

"...A great read and very empowering." Read more

"...It provides validation of the emotional experiences of infertility and shared stories and anecdotes that are highly relatable...." Read more

"It’s informative, REAL, and so relatable. If you find yourself in this struggle or know someone, buy this book...." Read more

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Customers find the book great for those battling with infertility and the grief behind infertation. They also say it's helpful and perfectly captures infertion for those going through it or know someone who is.

"An absolutely amazing read. This is a great book for those battling with infertility and the grief behind infertility...." Read more

"This book is a great resource for anyone currently in their own infertility journey...." Read more

"It’s informative, REAL, and so relatable. If you find yourself in this struggle or know someone, buy this book...." Read more

"...It's sensitive, informative, emotional, with the perfect dose of humor...." Read more

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Customers find the book an amazing read.

"...I felt so validated reading it, like every emotion I’ve felt has had meaning...." Read more

"An absolutely amazing read. This is a great book for those battling with infertility and the grief behind infertility...." Read more

"...I finished it in just one sitting. It was AMAZING!..." Read more

"...Thirdly, it is a worthwhile read for those of us who have never had to deal with infertility in our lives, but who haven't known how to react and..." Read more

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Customers find the book easy to read and recommend it to others.

"...Overall, it was an easy read and would recommend to others. It was nice to find a book on the topic that wasn't religiously based." Read more

"...I would recommend this easy, emotional and sometimes funny book to anyone who is experiencing or anyone that knows someone with infertility." Read more

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Brittany

Helped me cope

Reviewed in the United States on April 6, 2024

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This book is just what I needed while going through all the emotions of infertility. I felt so validated reading it, like every emotion I’ve felt has had meaning. It’s reassuring to hear other peoples stories and motivations, and helps me realize I’m not alone. I highly recommend for anyone to read who’s in a similar journey, even if it’s just to help you understand the process and the emotions behind it.

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Ariel

Amazing Book! Definitely a must read!

Reviewed in the United States on February 17, 2022

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An absolutely amazing read. This is a great book for those battling with infertility and the grief behind infertility. This author helps the reader to understand how to encounter social outings and handle the topic of “their pregnant, but I’m not”. A great read and very empowering.

Reviewed in the United States on December 5, 2020

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This book is a great resource for anyone currently in their own infertility journey. It provides validation of the emotional experiences of infertility and shared stories and anecdotes that are highly relatable. I will admit I stopped reading at the last few chapters which spoke about her hysterectomy and moving on from infertility treatment. Overall, it was an easy read and would recommend to others. It was nice to find a book on the topic that wasn't religiously based.

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If you want feel valid and heard.. get this.

Reviewed in the United States on November 3, 2022

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It’s informative, REAL, and so relatable. If you find yourself in this struggle or know someone, buy this book. It’s validation and love and helps immensely.

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Lindsey Clark

Perfectly captures infertility for those going through it or know someone who is

Reviewed in the United States on March 2, 2017

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I sat down to read this book and couldn't put it down. I finished it in just one sitting. It was AMAZING! This book did an absolutely beautiful job of capturing every aspect of infertility as well as sharing advice for those going through it or know someone who is. It's sensitive, informative, emotional, with the perfect dose of humor. Please get this book regardless of your story, it will add to your life as well as others immensely.

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Joseph

Finding joy in ivf

Reviewed in the United States on January 27, 2020

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My husband and I have navigated through four early losses and are in the midst of our first round of IVF. This book was so helpful in me knowing I’m not alone! I’m the first of my friends to navigate through this heartache and often felt that no one gets it. This has helped me through my grief and my hope in this journey

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Travis

Not finished

Reviewed in the United States on September 20, 2021

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Only made it to 23% and surprise, I’m pregnant! May come back and finish at some point. Don’t remember much as I haven’t read it in a while.

Reviewed in the United States on April 22, 2018

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I have had 4 miscarriages (13 weeks, 2 chemicals and 6 1/2 weeks) in the past two years. All after having two healthy pregnancies. My 4th miscarriage hit me hard. I was anxious and depressed. I searched the internet for books on recurrent pregnancy loss and never found any that really helped me. And there are very few to begin with! I came across Not Pregnant from a bloggers Instagram post. Immediately ordered it. I am so glad I did! I laughed, cried, shook my head yes more times than I can count and was comforted. This is the book I was looking for. Highly recommend it for those who are frustrated with their secondary infertility journey and need encouragement and comfort!

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