Hey all, my wife and I are planning our honeymoon in Hawaii in December. We're both pretty adventurous and plan to do a lot of hiking and camping. We're not interested in luxury resorts, and not really interested in beaches either (although we'll probably check out one or two).
Kauai is definitely going to be one of our islands but we're struggling to decide on Mauai vs. BI for our second island. I know both have a lot in common (and with Kauai as well). Some considerations:
* I visited the Big island a few years ago for about a week and saw a lot of the main attractions, but my wife hasn't been to Hawaii at all so it would be new to her.
* We're planning 4-5 days per island.
* We plan to rent a car.
* We both like the rural/smalltown vibe that I remember BI having. I know Maui is rural as well but I don't know how it compares (e.g. it could be more touristy).
* We're not outright against "tourist" activities (it's kind of become a meme to say that in the past few years) but they have to be genuine. Would rather spend the day exploring a small town than go to something cheesy just to check a box.
* I like interacting with locals when I travel - random conversations, going to bars, etc. If one of the islands is known for being friendlier, I would lean towards that one.
* I have a friend we could stay with on the BI, which would save us a lot of money on accommodation. So if all else was equal between the two islands, I would lean toward BI for the financial aspect. But if Maui is a much better fit, then we would be willing to spend the extra money.