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Howdy folks. Per my last post, I guess she broke up with me last night. I’m 21 and she is 22, we’ve been dating for about 3 months. She told me recently, that if I don’t plan on marrying her in 9 months, to let her know right now so she can leave and find someone else. Now this might not sound crazy to you all but I’m in flight school, I’m also seperately enrolled in college.. so I’m not ready for marriage quite yet. I explained this to her and I also mentioned how we have been together 3 months and in my own personal opinion 9 more isn’t nearly enough time to decide if I want to spend the rest of my life with you (that didn’t go over well.) She listened, and she responded: “don’t waste my time.” I told her if she wanted to marry so soon, I need a prenup to protect myself, she declined and reiterated that I don’t trust her. I went on about how college+flight instruction is going to be hard enough and I spoke about timing, her argument was that having a wife and KIDS will make everything easier. I really do like her but I’m starting to think she’s crazy. Fellas? Ladies, you’re welcome too. Edit: she is not pregnant