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aitah for refusing to change bikinis after my husband had asked me to wear a thong?
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aitah for refusing to change bikinis after my husband had asked me to wear a thong?

okay sooooo yesterday was my husband's birthday (we're both 22) and he wanted to have some friends over for some pool time. thought it was just gonna be a chill time, id cook for them, etc.

yesterday afternoon he asked if i could wear a thong bikini because he wanted to "show me off to his friends". now i have no problem wearing something that revealing when it's just the two of us, but i always opt for more coverage when we have company.

but i felt bad saying no to him on his birthday, so i told him that id do it. so i put it on about a half hour before his friends arrived and he was thrilled which made me feel a little bit better temporarily, but then he asked if i could take the bra pads out. i told him i really didn't wanna do that but he asked a few more times and i relented, but i was getting upset at this point.

his friends come over, im bringing them food and beers, and about an hour in my husband comes inside while im in the kitchen and says he doesn't like how much his friends are looking at me and that he wants me to change into a different bathing suit.

i told him that i wasn't gonna change. that he'd wanted me in next to nothing even when i didn't want to be, and that's what he was gonna get.

his friends left a few hours later and we got into a big fight, we're somewhat resolved now but i just feel weird.

i guess im just looking for unbiased opinions, aitah here? and any ideas what i should do going forward if something like this happens again?










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