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My fiancée (25 F) and I (25 M) had been dating for 6 years when I decided to propose to her last month. This was the happiest moment in my life— until a week later when her best friend (25 F) called and told me she needed to confess something.
She told me that my fiancée had told her a few years ago that she had one night stand with her ex and that my fiancée had also felt really guilty afterwards. My fiancée’s friend said it was wrong of her keeping such secret from me all along but once she learnt about my engagement, it had to come out, and she couldn’t keep it in anymore.
I was completely shocked and dejected; at first I thought she was lying but then she showed me the texts from a few years ago between herself and my fiancée discussing the hookup, and I saw in the texts that my fiancé was confessing how sorry she was about everything. The news broke me, tore my heart apart and made me sick in the stomach completely, and I felt nauseous.
For the first few days, I cried a lot and breaking up with her was what I really wanted, however I had no idea how to go about it. I acted like everything was normal to my fiancée. When I told my sister (23 F) about it, she was really angry, and she asked me to send her copies of these screenshots my fiancée had shared with me.
Last night was our anniversary, and I broke up with my fiancée but I felt guilty about how everything played out. My sister planned everything, including the gift. We had gone to a fancy restaurant for dinner, and we had invited my sister to come too. My fiancée was surprised that my sister would come but she was excited and happy.
The restaurant had prepared us a mini cake as it was our anniversary, and we had that cake after dinner. There were those firecracker lights and it seemed very romantic, and at the end, I gave my fiancée her gift which was neatly packaged in a box. My fiancée seemed very excited as she opened it, but when she opened it, it was a framed picture of the texts she had sent to her best friend a couple of years ago. My fiancée was initially confused but as she read it, she understood what it was, and she slowly got dejected. I just wanted to get out of there, but my sister said a lot of not so nice things to my fiancée pretty loudly, and I could sense that others were looking at our table too. It got really embarrassing, and my fiancée then started crying really badly, and my sister told my fiancée to take her own ride home, and my sister and I then left.
Obviously the wounds are still fresh, and my sister assured me it’s the least my ex fiancée deserved. Was I the AH?