Hello my dear siblings 🥰 it’s my first time posting here but I read a lot and thought maybe you fine folk could help me.
I purchased two decks from an online seller on a reputable platform. I’m disappointed as they arrived and are obvious dupes. I purchased thinking I was getting an ok deal (still not inexpensive!)
DETAILS:
I would never purposely buy a dupe out of respect for the artist and publisher; these were not only flimsy card stock but had no guidebooks.
I double checked the listing and it didn’t say anything about it being an authorized or even unauthorized printing. I finally found in the “about us”/separate from the listing itself that they print the decks themselves. The platform itself does not allow unofficial reprints/copyright infringements.
Friends, I’ve been feeling bad. I spent a lot of money for my budget. I told myself to just be happy I have them, even if I felt deceived and disappointed. Yesterday I went to gently shuffle one and the card stock was so thin it made me sad!!!
I don’t ever, ever (!!!) usually complain or request refunds but felt like I should this time. Following the platform’s process I reached out to the seller first. My message was very clear and factual, no emotion or judgement, simply: these decks are counterfeit and have no guidebooks and I am not interested in a dupe deck.
This is where I’m checking in. The seller responded in such a rude and harsh way. They said they weren’t going to refund me just because I “decided to become a tarot expert”, that dupes were common and acceptable practice, and that “any sort violation such as copywriting infringement would have to come from the author or artist of the original decks.” They finished by telling me to “feel free to take up your any agressions with [selling platform]”.
“Aggressions?” ☠️ My fawning personality cPTSD and writing style say “not likely” lol.
I was like LOL wtf counterfeits are illegal and it’s at minimum shitty to steal from the consumers, artists, and publishers. I responded that I would absolutely take it up with the platform and would leave an honest review. They again responded harshly. Whatever.
INPUT REQUESTED:
Please be gentle with your responses, I’m feeling especially vulnerable and am maybe seeking comfort.
Firstly: I have been ruminating and feeling frustrated/upset. Confrontation is not something I engage in on my personal behalf often and I feel unsettled.
Is this really common practice? Am I actually a giant B who doesn’t “get it” and am not being flexible/understanding/aware enough? It doesn’t feel right but my autistic self can sometimes be very self assured, even when I try to question situations from an external perspective. I’m still in my mind at the end of the day so I bring this to the community 🫶.
Secondly: I now have two expensive dupe decks that make me feel a certain way. I cleaned them with smoked piñon wood and a selenite bowl. I claimed them and named them mine. I’m still feeling hesitant and it’s on my mind.
Sending you all my best care, understanding, and hopes for a lovely day 🧙♀️🖤