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Aitah for leaving my husband after he gave away some of my babies ashes?
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this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here


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Aitah for leaving my husband after he gave away some of my babies ashes?

My daughter passed away in a tragic accident when she was 2 years old. At the time my step daughter was still coming around regularly and we had a decent relationship, we weren't close or anything but I tried my best to get along for my husband's sake. She was 13 at the time my daughter passed away and SDs mother came to my husband and I asking if she could have some of my daughters ashes to put in a keepsake for SD. I refused off the bat. Not only is SD not responsible enough for something that important, I didn't like the idea of separating my babies ashes at all. SD has since stopped visiting as much and it's been 3 years since my daughter passed away and SDs mom came to me again asking for "more ashes" because SD lost the keepsake sometime ago and was torn up about it. I was shaking because I was clear about not wanting to separate her ashes and asked her what she meant. She told me that after the initial conversation we had 3 years ago, my husband gave her the ashes anyways to put in the keepsake. I confronted my husband on this and he shrugged it off saying that it wasn't that big of a deal. I packed my bags and took my daughters urn and went to stay at my sister's house. It's been 2 weeks since I left and he's been blowing up my phone with phone calls and texts, some begging and crying and some telling me I'm an ah for blowing this out of proportion. Then today a mutual friend sent me a screenshot of a post made on Facebook from SDs mother saying that I am punishing my husband for doing something nice for his only living child and that I am just bitter. I am so torn up over this... AITAH?

Eta: I should clarify during the initial conversation I never said I wasn't open to having this conversation again at a later time once she was older and more mature. When discussing arrangements for our daughter we agreed mutually that she would be cremated ONLY because neither of us knew where our final resting places would be and we wanted her with us wherever we ended up, not buried just to be buried. We are both from different states than we are currently residing in so neither were sure we wanted to be buried here.



ELDEN RING Patch Notes 1.13 - Full Summary of Changes
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Patch 1.12.3 has been released for ELDEN RING Shadow of the Erdtree.
Here's all the changes:

PvP-exclusive balance adjustments

  • Decreased the damage and damage animation of the shearing vacuum effect of the “Swift Slash” Skill.

General balance adjustments

  • Increased the Intelligence scaling of the Carian Sorcery Sword and slightly decreased the base damage.

  • Extended the throwing attacks range for the following weapons:

  • Smithscript Dagger / Smithscript Cirque

  • Changed the placement of the bosses in the re-fight against the Golden Hippopotamus and Commander Gaius bosses to be in the same position as in the first fight.

Bug Fixes

  • Fixed a bug that caused the Rolling Sparks Skill to deal more damage than expected.

  • Fixed a bug that caused the Rolling Sparks and Wall of Sparks Skills to deal no damage while some special effects were applied to the player.

  • Fixed a bug where some special effects of a right-handed weapon would also be applied to the following Weapon Skills when cast with the left hand:

    • Feeble Lord's Frenzied Flame

    • Discus Hurl

  • Fixed a bug where successfully guarding while attacking using the Thrusting Shield weapon type would consume less stamina than intended.

  • Fixed a bug that prevented players from cancelling the attack recovery of two-handed strong attacks by rolling for certain weapons of the Backhand Blades weapon type.

  • Fixed a bug that caused the Lightning Perfume Bottle and Frenzyflame Perfume Bottle weapons to deal double damage under certain circumstances.

  • Fixed a bug where the Arcane scaling of the Bloodfiend's Arm weapon was higher than intended when setting an affinity. The status buildup of the heavy attack was also reduced.

  • Fixed a bug where the Faith scaling of the Gazing Finger weapon was not being applied correctly.

  • Fixed a bug where the damage animation of some attacks of the Fire Knight's Greatsword against players was different than expected.

  • Fixed a bug where the attack affinity of some attacks of the Fire Knight's Greatsword were different than expected.

  • Fixed a bug that caused some affinities for the following weapons to be higher than intended:

    • Smithscript Dagger

    • Smithscript Cirque

    • Smithscript Axe

    • Smithscript Greathammer

    • Smithscript Spear

    • Golem Fist

    • Smithscript Shield

  • Fixed a bug that caused enemies to heal when the Maximum HP reduction gradual HP reduction effect  applied by Black Knife Tiche wore off.

  • Fixed a bug that caused summoned NPCs to behave differently than expected under certain circumstances.

  • Fixed a bug that where the unblockable bite attack of the Golden Hippopotamus boss would connect with players more easily than intended.

  • Fixed a bug that caused text to display differently than expected.

  • Several other performance improvements and bug fixes.

Possible unstable performance fixes

  • For the PS5 version of the game, unstable framerate may be improved by using the "Rebuild Database" option from the device’s safe mode.

  • In some PC versions, Ray Tracing may be unintentionally enabled and cause unstable performance. Please check the Ray Tracing setting in the "System" > "Graphics Settings" > "Raytracing Quality" from the title screen or in-game menu.

  • In the PC Version, the message "Inappropriate activity detected" may appear without cheating.

To fix this issue, please verify the integrity of the game's files before restarting the game.

  • In the PC version, unstable framerate may be caused by third party applications that control mouse behavior. Deactivating these third party applications may improve performance.

App Ver. 1.12.3

Regulation Ver. 1.12.4

In PS4, PS5, Xbox One and Xbox Series X|S versions, Regulation files can be downloaded by logging in to the server.

If the Regulation Ver. listed in the lower right corner of the title screen is not 1.12.4, please select LOGIN and apply the latest regulation before enjoying the game.




What is the most American movie ever made?
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What is the most American movie ever made?

What is the most American movie ever made?

Not much going on today for me, but I wanted to celebrate America's birthday with something patriotic.

The most patriotic I could think of is Saving Private Ryan. Any other suggestions? Rambo? Shawshank Redemption? Forrest Gump? I'd like to see what you think.










TIL in 2015, Devon Staples, who used to work at Disney World and would dress up as Gaston and Goofy, died instantly after attempting to launch a firework off his head while celebrating the Fourth of July with his friends.


What’s the coziest town in the US you’ve been to?
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What’s the coziest town in the US you’ve been to?

I live in the US, but the best towns I’ve visited have been throughout Europe. They’re often easy to navigate, beautiful, and full of history. The US is obviously a very different place, but I’m curious which towns have a similarly pleasant feel.




NBA is becoming a rich man’s sport
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NBA is becoming a rich man’s sport

Edit: I’m aware most things are this way but meritocracy an often like a spectrum and basketball is moving farther away every year

An underrated part of the Bronny James discourse i've noticed is that the NBA is no longer a league of “getting it out the mud” that whole idea of the poor kid going to the local blacktop court to work on his game and getting his family out of a rough situation is no longer as prevalent. Most NBA prospects these days are sons of upper class parents more so than before. Half of team USA u17 team is full of NBA players' sons.

Lower-income and regular-income kids can't compete with the kid who's getting pro trainers, afford to go to top AAU programs, travel around the world, go to top prestigious highschools and such. With this the talent level has gone up as this is the natural progression of all sports like hockey and baseball. Does the idea of basketball becoming a rich kids' sport concern y'all or is it a fair tradeoff for a better basketball product