this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here
My daughter passed away in a tragic accident when she was 2 years old. At the time my step daughter was still coming around regularly and we had a decent relationship, we weren't close or anything but I tried my best to get along for my husband's sake. She was 13 at the time my daughter passed away and SDs mother came to my husband and I asking if she could have some of my daughters ashes to put in a keepsake for SD. I refused off the bat. Not only is SD not responsible enough for something that important, I didn't like the idea of separating my babies ashes at all. SD has since stopped visiting as much and it's been 3 years since my daughter passed away and SDs mom came to me again asking for "more ashes" because SD lost the keepsake sometime ago and was torn up about it. I was shaking because I was clear about not wanting to separate her ashes and asked her what she meant. She told me that after the initial conversation we had 3 years ago, my husband gave her the ashes anyways to put in the keepsake. I confronted my husband on this and he shrugged it off saying that it wasn't that big of a deal. I packed my bags and took my daughters urn and went to stay at my sister's house. It's been 2 weeks since I left and he's been blowing up my phone with phone calls and texts, some begging and crying and some telling me I'm an ah for blowing this out of proportion. Then today a mutual friend sent me a screenshot of a post made on Facebook from SDs mother saying that I am punishing my husband for doing something nice for his only living child and that I am just bitter. I am so torn up over this... AITAH?
Eta: I should clarify during the initial conversation I never said I wasn't open to having this conversation again at a later time once she was older and more mature. When discussing arrangements for our daughter we agreed mutually that she would be cremated ONLY because neither of us knew where our final resting places would be and we wanted her with us wherever we ended up, not buried just to be buried. We are both from different states than we are currently residing in so neither were sure we wanted to be buried here.
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Not much going on today for me, but I wanted to celebrate America's birthday with something patriotic.
The most patriotic I could think of is Saving Private Ryan. Any other suggestions? Rambo? Shawshank Redemption? Forrest Gump? I'd like to see what you think.
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Not sure about you all but this 4th of July, I’m feeling less patriotic than ever. The increasing likelihood of Trump2, scotus dropping a deuce on the constitution, and the increasingly vitriolic attacks on my trans family all have me wanting to get the hell out of the USA
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Edit: I’m aware most things are this way but meritocracy an often like a spectrum and basketball is moving farther away every year
An underrated part of the Bronny James discourse i've noticed is that the NBA is no longer a league of “getting it out the mud” that whole idea of the poor kid going to the local blacktop court to work on his game and getting his family out of a rough situation is no longer as prevalent. Most NBA prospects these days are sons of upper class parents more so than before. Half of team USA u17 team is full of NBA players' sons.
Lower-income and regular-income kids can't compete with the kid who's getting pro trainers, afford to go to top AAU programs, travel around the world, go to top prestigious highschools and such. With this the talent level has gone up as this is the natural progression of all sports like hockey and baseball. Does the idea of basketball becoming a rich kids' sport concern y'all or is it a fair tradeoff for a better basketball product
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this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here
My MIL is currently going through a health scare and is being tested for cancer. She won't have her results for a week or so. But since the mention of cancer, my MIL has been clinging to my husband fiercely. She has been asking him to go over there every day for the past 3 weeks just to hang out with her because she "might not have much time left". She's been having him drive her to every doctor's appointment. She's even jumped the gun and quit her job to sit at home and work on her health, which is fine, but what's not fine is her already asking my husband if she can "borrow" money. Thankfully he hasn't given her anything (I would know, as I work our finances).
Anyways, there have been multiple times in the past 3 weeks that my husband has run late for special events, work, etc because he's over helping his mother. And as much as I hate to admit it, it has been the cause of 3 pretty significant fights recently. His argument is that he wants to spend time with his mother because life is short and where she may have cancer, he's not doing so well mentally. And I get that. But he's severely impacting me by doing so. Like I missed an important ultrasound because mommy dearest needed him because she was having a panic attack. He did try rushing home and he got me to my appointment, but I was 15 minutes late and therefore they needed to reschedule.
Well, yesterday around 10am I told my husband I felt like I was going to go in to labor soon. My body felt different and there was a lot more pressure. But roughly 2 hours later his mother calls and says that she is (tmi) shitting blood and needs to be rushed to the emergency room. Instead of calling an ambulance she called my husband (she has Medicaid so ambulance rides aren't something she has to pay for). He immediately rushed to her side. My water breaks at 1:36pm. I remain calm. I was already having a home birth. My midwife was on her way. I knew everything would be okay. But I did call my husband. No answer. I then text my husband and I asked him where he was. No response. I text again and ask him how long he will be, no response. I text a 3rd and final time, saying "I kind of need you fucking home", no response. I have the baby without him. I did not tell him anything about me being in labor. I have our daughter at 3:13pm. I text my husband a picture of our daughter, with no context. He is home within a half hour is pissed at me for not sending him a text specifically stating that my water had broken and I find out that he had been sitting in his truck in the parking lot, waiting for his mother outside (so he had his phone and got my texts but he was "stressing" and "figured it was yet another false alarm" - I had 3 false alarms). He says I'm in the wrong. I'm choosing to ignore his anger, as I have bigger things to worry about (my perfect daughter) but now that I've had her, I do feel a bit of guilt. AITA?
(His mom is fine. It was a bleeding hemorrhoid, which she has a history of apparently from what my husband just told me so she was likely fully aware that it was her hemorrhoid again)
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