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Obituary Writing
Obituary Examples for Your Parents
Obituary Samples for Spouses
Obituary Samples for Siblings
Obituaries for Unexpected Circumstances
Writing Your Own Obituary
Inspirational Obituary Examples
Common Obituary Writing Questions
Who should I mention in the obituary?
Most obituaries list the immediate family: spouse/partner, parents, children, siblings, grandchildren. But you are free to include anyone who was important to the deceased, even if they were not blood relatives. Many obituaries now include devoted caregivers, life-long friends, and even pets.
How do I write my mother or father’s obituary?
The more detail you can include, the more meaningful it will be for family and friends who want to remember your parent’s life, both now and in years to come. What did your mother or father love doing? What were some stories from their younger years? How do you picture them when you think of your fond memories? What was something they used to say that stuck with you?
Should I pre-write my own obituary?
If you want to be have the last word on how people may remember you, this is an opportunity to reflect on your life, recall favorite memories, and say goodbye to those you care about. You can set the tone however feels right for you: be serious and grateful, be light and playful, or even make one final plea for a cause you care about.
What’s the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?
Whereas an obituary is a written announcement of someone’s death that commemorates the facts of their life, a eulogy is a tribute speech delivered at a funeral or memorial service, usually by someone who knew the deceased well. It reflects on what was special about a person, how they impacted those around them, and how they will be remembered now that they’re gone.
Why publish an obituary in the local news?
Most people go their whole lives without their life story being written. Publishing an obituary in the local news, where it appears both online and in print, means reaching the largest audience of people who care. Community members everywhere look to their hometown news to find out about local residents who have died — classmates, teachers, neighbors, colleagues.
