So my brother in law is getting married in a week. Me (f23), my husband (m29) and our daughter (F3) are already super excited, my husband and his brother get along extremely well, so do I, me and his wife to be don't have a lot in common but we definitely don't dislike eachother, just not many things to talk about, the same with my husband and her, we can easily spend time together and enjoy ourselves but we wouldn't necessarily call her a friend. My husband and I are the only 'younger' couple that is already married and we are also the only ones with a little kid. A couple of weeks ago I ordered some dresses for me and my daughter for the wedding. I'll admit the dress we picked is quite princessy but it's NOT white, it's sage green. When I ordered it I send a picture to my brother in law to ask if it was okay. He said the dress was super cute and that they both liked it. Yesterday his wife to be called me saying my daughter needs a different dress. I asked what changed her mind, since she already said it was okay, she couldn't give me an answer just said she doesn't like it anymore. I don't have a back up dress for her and I also don't know why she is so against it all of a sudden. My husband also talked to his brother, he apparently didn't know that she told me this and was also very confused. We told him that she is most likely gonna be wearing it since we don't know if we will find a different one. His wife to be called me an A Hole because of it. So am I the A Hole for sticking with that dress?