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Introducing a community chat and addressing repetitive posts
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Introducing a community chat for Pish

A few years ago we decided to turn this subreddit into a strictly discussion-based one and we created r/Pishlander for all other peripheral fandom-related stuff: recommendations for books/shows similar to Outlander, the cast’s other projects and social media, memes, fan art, fan fiction, fan casts, cosplay, fan conventions, content about Scotland, your travel stories, or anything in general that is loosely related to the show/books or reminds you of them.

We’ve decided that the newly-introduced community chat would give you the opportunity to share any fandom-related stuff and react to it in real time. We’re hoping it will also allow you to connect with other fans in ways that aren’t possible on the main sub. You’re welcome to share everything mentioned above. However, as with r/Pishlander and the pish posts in the past, it won’t be a spoiler-free space. Essentially, think of it as a Spoilers All thread, so please visit it at your own risk if you’re not fully caught up on the show/books and don’t want to see future spoilers. But if we want this place to be welcoming to our whole community, try to keep spoilers to a minimum, if possible.

If you’re a member of the sub, you will find the chat at the top of the sub, in the tab called “Chats” next to the main Feed. After you visit it once, it will show up in the Chat tab of your app, in the same place as all your chats/groupchats with other users. We’ll be doing minimal moderation in the chat but we ask you to follow our sub rules regarding conduct and respect the Reddiquette. Piracy is also not allowed, so don’t share links to illegal streaming or download websites. Self-promotion is not allowed on the sub, but you’re allowed to share links to your own fanfics, fan art, or fan accounts in the chat. If you see messages that break the rules, report them.

In the future, we might open more chat channels if you’re interested in having a place to, for example, react to the show in real time as it’s airing or discuss recent production news. Let us know in the comments if something like that would interest you and we’d be open to a poll on it closer to the show’s return (November 22, 2024).

Regarding repetitive posts…

Those of you who have been here for a while know what the frequent topics of discussion in the fandom are (for those who haven’t, it’s mostly Roger, Brianna/Sophie, and Claire). We would like to remind you all that:

The number of posts you see on the sub is not the number of posts that get submitted.

We’re closely monitoring how often threads on similar topics get posted and, according to our rule regarding reposts, remove those that break it (for example, there were almost two months between the latest threads specifically about Roger).

However, we can’t fully forbid people to post their opinions.

We always encourage people to search the sub before posting, but everyone comes to this series at different times and different stages of their lives. We can’t expect new viewers to share their opinions in old, dead threads if they want to have a good-faith discussion about a character/plot. Similarly, we can’t always direct them to the most recent thread if it covers more seasons/books that they’ve seen/read. If their opinion is substantiated (i.e. not just “I hate Roger!!!”) and a similar post hasn’t been made recently, we’ll not remove it. Otherwise, we’ll remove the thread according to our rule against posts with no substance.

If the repetitive posts annoy you, you’re more than welcome to scroll past and ignore them and let those who want to have a discussion have it.

Comments in the vein of “here we go again,” “this is old news,” “it’s time for a weekly XYZ bashing post!” aren’t helpful to new fans. Just because you’ve seen something a thousand times doesn’t mean they have. We want to foster a community where all opinions are welcome and people don’t feel patronized for coming into the sub late in the show’s run or with a different point of view. Of course, if someone doesn’t want to have a good-faith discussion and comes into the sub just to relentlessly bash or troll, we’ll usually lock or remove the thread. You can always alert us to such behavior by using the report button. But please, remember you were also new to the fandom and eager to share your opinions once.

We’d also like to remind book readers that show viewers’ opinions matter just as much as theirs. 


Recommending that people read the books is obviously fine, but people are allowed to form their opinions based on the show alone. We’d like to remind you of our “No gatekeeping” rule:

Don’t be condescending to non-readers. People are allowed to form an opinion based on the show alone, and it’s just as valid as one based on the books. Don’t dismiss someone just because they choose to engage with the series differently from you. Be nice to new fans. Give them the benefit of the doubt. If they’re new to the sub, they may not be familiar with what gets posted often or what’s against the rules. If you do think they’ve broken a rule, use the report button.

Also, we ask that you take a moment to think if new viewers will benefit from book spoilers if they’re talking only about the show. Not everyone will read the books and it’s fine; the show is catering to a wide audience and can be discussed only within its own context. We understand your urge to provide additional context from the books (especially when new viewers ask for it) or to present the contrast between the characters’ counterparts, but it’s not always going to be the most helpful in show-only discussions.

We are NOT introducing a venting/hate thread.

People have asked us in the past whether such a thread would be possible to replace the frequent negative posts on the sub. As mods, we don’t want to give the green light to hate, which can easily devolve into disrespectful behavior towards actors portraying the characters or users with different opinions. It would also be difficult to cater to everyone—for example, if someone wants to complain about something in Season 4, we can’t expect them to hang out in a thread where spoilers for all seasons are allowed. So, we’re not planning on introducing such a thread.

As always, if you have any questions, put them in the comments below or message us through Mod Mail or chat.



My Icks - pale, skinny, breast-milky My Icks - pale, skinny, breast-milky
3 Voyager

I just started reading Voyager. I've watched the show through twice and never really noticed these things, but in the books there are a few repeated elements that totally skeeve me out. I haven't been part of the conversation too long, so maybe these are common icks, but anyway, here are mine;

  1. There are so many places in the first three books, at least, where paleness is praised, almost fetishized. DG writes at length about how pale and translucent female characters' skin is, you can see their veins - it seems to be a sign of purity, beauty, and innocence (thought it's applied a lot to Claire who certainly isn't innocent so idk, I'm not an English major). I can't remember any other skin tone (not that there are so many at this point in the books...) being described in such loving, artistic terms. (and I'm super pale white so it's not just that I am upset to not see my own traits praised). Ick.

  2. There is a section in Voyager, maybe chapter 15 or 17, where Claire flies back to Boston, and she complains that the person sitting next to her had the *audacity* to be fat. I know Voyager was published in 1993, and the way we as a society talk about women's bodies has changed soooo much in the ensuing years, but still, it made me feel gross. And then it was quickly followed by a passage of Claire checking herself out in the mirror (ostensibly to compare her body to the last time Jaime saw her), and being so proud that there was no sagging, no dimpling of her butt, etc. - like wtf why can't she age like a normal human AND be okay with it? I understand feeling self conscious, but it would be a lot easier to feel connected to her, and love her character, if she wasn't so perfect. It's icky to me that her perfectness is so connected to her thinness and youth - seems like the only sign of aging anyone accepts is greying hair (the horror /s). Ick.

  3. This is in a different category than my first two, but what is with all the drinking of breastmilk?? I saw a post a while ago questioning DG's apparent interest in breastmilk, and many people question the scene of Jenny riding a horse right after giving birth and the expression of milk in the woods, etc. - as a new mom who breastfed I actually love most of the descriptions of pregnancy, nursing, etc., and I love that she paints pregnancy as potentially sexy (although seems to be missing a whole swath of the very unsexy reality...), but why do so many men *drink* their partners' breastmilk?!?! A taste out of curiosity I totally get, but fully drinking?? WHY??? DG gets so much of motherhood right in Outlander (the day with the dinner party and the furnace busting and Claire freaking out omg perfect), and I'm not surprised because of course she is a mother, but the breastmilk obsession is an ick for me.

What are your ick tropes??? I want to know!


I finished reading Drums 😁👏🏻 I finished reading Drums 😁👏🏻
4 Drums Of Autumn

I AM ALREADY DONE WITH BOOK FOUR AND I AM SOOO HAPPY ABOUT IT I COULD CRY.

I give the book a 9/10

Why not a 10? Well... this was the first book that had me wanting to bang my head against the wall around 10 times.

The whole misunderstanding plot was SO ANNOYING. I liked some of the changes within, but even with those, somewhow this whole thing more became more frustrating.

Example:

Because Roger was going by Mackenzie and not Wakefield, Jamie had no way of knowing it was Roger that appeared in front of him looking for Bree. Jamie assumed this Mackenzie dude was his daughter's rapist. Bc it was hidden from him that it was actually Bonnet. He started to panic bc if the baby was his, the rapist would have all rights to claim Bree as his wife. So what does Roger do when Jamie gives him a chance to explain? (Which doesn't happen in the show) he says: "I came to claim my wife"

When I tell you guys I legit paused the book and facepalmed myself so hard I actually left a palm imprinted on my face, would you believe me?🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

And, I didn't think it was possible, but Roger kept saying the wrong thing, over and over. His encounter with Bree in the past was so aggressive, people around them wanted to interfere to defend Bree and no wonder Lizzie thought Roger was the bad man. The dude treated Brianna with so much hostility when he first found her, I couldn't believe it. From the outside, and at face value, it just looked bad.

I hated Roger in the show in season 4, and he grew on me later of course. But suddenly, reading the book, and revisiting this whole plot, made me hate him again lololol it gives me more perspective on why people always hate him so much at the beginning.

Another example of characters having a thing for saying the wrong thing in this book:

When Lord John and Bree are having their conversations, and LJ reveals the truth about his feelings for Jamie, Bree suddenly remembers that Jamie's only experience with a man was probably the worst thing that has ever happened to him, and she tries to bring up the question about BJR by mentioning Jamie's back scars. "Have you seen his back?" And Lord John says "you mean his scars? Yes, I made those."

NOOOOOOOO JOHN, NOOOOOO DON'T SAY THAT AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA (I facepalmed myself again) that was the absolute WORST possible way to reply to that question🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Speaking of John, the dude is not the little meow meow the show portrays him to be. Nor is he the saint the fandom claims he is. I've seen people complain about Claire being hostile towards him, but in the book, John is EQUALLY hostile towards her. His feelings for Jamie are, in many occasions, in total display in front of her, he makes no effort to hide them. He has moments in which he is very disrespectful and says stuff Iike "don't worry I didn't come to seduce your husband" and in a particular moment in which we get his POV, he talks about how he has fantasized about plunging a knife on Claire's throat just bc he saw the way Jamie looks at her.

I still love John, but dang, I promise you all, Claire isn't the only one being irrational/hostile here.

I PROMISE YOU ALL I LOVED THE BOOK, haha. I just wanted to complain first lolol

Here are my faves:

  1. Bree meeting her entire family in the past! Her aunt Jenny, her uncle Ian and all of her cousins!! It made me tear up!! It was such a beautiful moment!

  2. Bree meeting Jamie. Waaaay better in the book. Their meeting felt absolutely magical.

  3. Jamie and Claire were THERE for the birth of Jemmy! YES. YES. YES.

  4. The Mohawk weren't as aggressive in the book. They welcomed Jamie, Claire and Ian at the beginning and their exchange wasn't as hostile.

  5. Ian showed interest in the Indians from the beginning. He became friends with many of them, making his decision to stay with the Mohawk not only about Roger, but also about him.

  6. Loved all the letter exchanges between Jenny, Ian and Jamie. Ian asking Jamie for young Ian to stay with him bc if he were to come back, his only purpose would be to join the soldiers? Beautiful.

  7. And of course! JAMIE AND CLAIRE. AND THEIR UNMATCHED chemistry ❤️❤️❤️ their sexy moment on top of the rock/in the river. Them undressing in the forest, literally having the most magical forest sex ever LOL worthy of a fairytale 😍

Anyway let me know what you all think of my post! Haha share your thoughts with me! :)


What Outlander Phrases Have You Adopted? What Outlander Phrases Have You Adopted?
Season Seven

I met my husband because I was at the store buying snacks for my faithful Outlander watch. It was season 1 and I remember I said something about needing my snacks for Outlander that night and he replied that he too was getting snacks for Outlander, and he offered to take me out for dinner the next day so we could chat about the new series.

Now we use so much phrasing for the show I'm sure we sound absolutely crazy to people who can hear our conversations.

He calls me mo chridhe.

We both use the term honeypot now.

My husband called our daughter leannan from the day she was born.

We have a giant braided gardenia named Sassenach.

We use dinna fash when one of us is upset over a slight inconvenience.

All of this thanks to Season One!


Does anybody else feel really, really, really sorry for Lord John? 😭 Does anybody else feel really, really, really sorry for Lord John? 😭
Season Three

He is so sweet and kind and honorable and wants to be loved! I just want to hug him while he cries over his unrequited love for you-know-who 😭 . It made me so sad to see his teary eyes in Jamaica. But on a lighter note, I was cracking up at the scene: “Do you have a warrant?” “No” “Do you have an affidavit?” “No”. I don’t know why I found that scene so hilarious but I did. It was a nice moment of comic relief. (I am only up to season 3 and haven’t reached LJG in the main books yet but I hear he has a bigger role in the future and I am excited for it Also does anyone recommend reading Scottish prisoner even if I don’t read all the other John Grey books first?)


Status update on book 10 Status update on book 10
Spoilers All

Hey friends!

Anyone have any status updates on book 10? i’ve seen her say its the final book, but then when reading bees it really didn’t feel like it should be the end…? then i read back a tweet a while ago her saying she might split the plot of book 10 between two novels etc.

Have there been any happenings on the status that i missed out on? is the next book for real the end of outlander? Do we have a name or a relase date? what do u guys think and feel about that.

Cheers x



It's pretty disappointing that Prince Charles has an English accent instead of an Italian accent. It's pretty disappointing that Prince Charles has an English accent instead of an Italian accent.
Season Two

Historically, he would have had an Italian accent since he was born and raised in Rome. It would have been cool if the actor spoke in an Italian accent instead of an English one. A tour guide in Scotland told me the Outlander series is quite historically accurate (besides the time travel part...), but he told me Prince Charles should have had an Italian accent. I do, however, think the actor visually was a good casting for the Bonnie Prince.


Jamie’s behavior in early-mid season 3 Jamie’s behavior in early-mid season 3
Season Three

Basically, I’ve been dealing pretty well with a lot of Claire and Jamie’s drama up until this season. I know they were apart for too long but I can’t view this relationship as anything else but utterly toxic for Claire. The scene where they’re arguing after Claire finds out Jamie kept his marriage a secret from her out of cowardice was okay to me, he felt a very hard pain with her absence. But when she confronts him about it, not only he spouts like a child claiming she left her, tells her she could kill her then proceeds to nearly assault her (I was in shock during that scene) it felt out of place even considering his change. Plus, it feels like it’s always been Claire who needs to put aside her anger and discomfort for Jamie’s sake. It basically almost always starts with her opening up, they fight, and then Claire is the one who needs to comfort him. Then he’s being a complete manchild about Fergus and Marsali (granted I haven’t watched long enough to figure out why). I KNOW he’s supposed to be a flawed character and bla bla bla but it’s been hard to swallow him as a proper companion for Claire this season. I just wanna know if he’s going to get any better this season, I’m hopeful since there are so many to go.



Controversial opinion: the amount of violence makes it all feel meaningless Controversial opinion: the amount of violence makes it all feel meaningless
Season Five

I am watching outlander for the first time. I love the story overall. But the amount of violence is frustrating.

When something traumatic happens, I want to feel for the characters. But it is just so overdone. It almost seems like they wanted to keep it interesting and the only way they know how to do that is by making a character endure something terrible. Even when it doesn’t make sense. And that is annoying when it distracts from an otherwise great story.

I feel like they do Jamie’s character a disservice with all that they put him through. After a certain point, I lost any real feelings about Jamie because watching him get abused (in every way, shape, and form) and then keep on keeping on every episode feels two dimensional.

The sexual assaults are so overdone. Every character has been at this point. And the characters are almost always fine after a day or so and it’s back to normal (unless they can tie their processing into another plot line.)

These people need to invest in locks because as soon as they have a moment of peace, that’s when you know random characters we have never met are going to be introduced by barging in and being monsters.

I understand “life was more brutal back then.” I don’t doubt that. But to me it feels unrealistic which strips the emotion from it.



Am I going to be spoiled (again)? Am I going to be spoiled (again)?
Season Six

I was introduced to Outlander by my girlfriend, who has only ever watched the show. She's watched all of the show that has released. After I read each book we watch the corresponding season. So after I finished Fiery Cross, we watched season five. Lo and behold, I saw some major spoilers, because I had not read ABOSAA yet.

I've just finished ABOSSA, so my question is, am I good to watch season 6, or will I encounter more spoilers in season 6? Do I go ahead and read EITB just to be safe? And are the rest of the books just as good as ABOSSA because golly, that was amazing.




Claire being Claire Claire being Claire
Season Six

Am I the only one who’s so annoyed by some of the things that Claire does? Like picking up the baby’s coffin to carry it during that funeral.. come on now, you HAD to know that everyone was gonna freak tf out over that lol.

And her using the ether.. & not talking to Jamie about the way she’s struggling with the trauma from that whole incident. I’m just feeling like I wanna scream at the TV & wondering if there’s anyone else who feels the same way lol 😅

EDIT: I post my opinions because I really enjoy getting feedback from you all. It helps me examine why I think and feel the way I do about things.

Most of the time when I feel so strongly about something, I realize that it’s probably not rational for me to feel that way, but I don’t quite know why I do. That’s why it’s so enjoyable to have these discussions with people who are as equally as invested in the series as I am.

I never mean anything I say in a negative way & I appreciate you guys & your input. 🩷