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READ BEFORE POSTING YOU DEGENERATE PINHEADS! HALFWAY THROUGH THE YEAR AND WE HAVEN'T BURNED IT DOWN!
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GOOD DAY MY GLORIOUS DIPSHITS!

So here we are, nearly halfway through the near, and we still can't figure out how to use Reddit or AskMen. THE LAST STICKY has been added to the FAQ but its not like you degenerates actually read a goddamned thing.

Joking aside for a moment

AskMen is a place to ask questions that will open a conversation with men or to gain a male perspective on things.

This is not a sex sub.
This is not an anti-woman sub.
This is not a dating sub.
This is not a PUA tips sub.
This is not a MGTOW sub.
This is not an Incel positive sub.

Men are not a monolith. Do not ask questions that treat all men as a singular being.
Do not post questions that assume all men think a single way, and you want to know why. You're already on the wrong path.
Your boyfriend/husband/SO is an individual not part of collective male mind. If you want to know why they did something - ASK THEM, NOT US.
You want to buy your boyfriend/husband/SO a gift, and don't know what to get them, HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH THEM.

You didn't have a dad growing up and want to ask a question - we got dads here.
You didn't or don't have many male friends and don't understand a reference - we got dudes here.
You never learned how to do a thing that "every dude" seems to know how to do, and want it explained - we got those guys here too.

I am saying all this, because lately there has been a swarm of really anti-female shit being said around here, people feeding into it, and then other (usually either anti-male or pro-fem) subs using it to buzz around and incite fights, flaming and other bullshit. The bots catch a lot, but the mod inbox the last two weeks has been full to the brim.

This is a safe space. Liberal, Conservative, Gay, Straight, Bi, Trans, Cis, Married, Single, Poly, Child-free, parenting, POC, White, Religious, Atheist, whatever...thats all part of the male experience, so it's all valued and all valid.

WE THE MODERATION TEAM ARE ASKING - when you see hateful shit, when you see people behaving badly, when you see people being wrong - fucking report it. if it's reported, report it again - three reports takes it down. Or message us with a link - and title it "This Fucking Person"

We will act, but we have to know about it. We need your help to keep this place a good place to be. It's a big sub, and we mods are few.

We may hate you dumbfucks, but we love you as well.

EDIT - HOLY SHIT, LITERALLY - What the actual fuck with girls and all the fucking questions about what we do with our junk when we poop? is this another TikTok thing?

EDIT NUMBER TWO - How hard is it to read the rules that pop up on the submit form field? - Since I posted this the number of challenged people unable to form an actual question in the title of thier post has skyrocketed! THE BOTS ARE SMARTER THAN YOU!



Men of Reddit who are happily married, have you made compromises with certain aspects of your partner? Men of Reddit who are happily married, have you made compromises with certain aspects of your partner?

For example my bf of 3 years is a strong boobs guy and I am... tiny A cup, almost nonexistent.

He has told me clearly: "I sacrificed my preference for boobs because of your personality and what's left is love keeping me around." And ofc it hurts like a tsunami of bricks.

Is it commonplace? Or you truly see them as the most beautiful woman alive despite any flaws?