this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here
My wife gave birth about one year ago and she changed. She was angry all the time, suspicious and paranoid of everyone. I think her mother filled her head against me. She would constantly accused me of cheating and MIL and her would talk about bad about me on the phone when I was not home.
One day she said she is leaving me and her mother was packing her stuff. She left with our daughter to her mothers house. Later that night, she called me and told me that she kissed a guy and asked me how it feels to be cheated on. Accusing me again of being a cheater and how I betrayed her. I finally had enough and told her to not come back.
Then she started blowing up my phone and I refused to reply back or take up her calls. She did show up in our house after 2 days and asked me for help with her mental state. I took her to the hospital and she was diagnosed with PPD and was put on medication.
She started slowly returning back to her normal self. I think she has healed and can manage by herself from now on so it was the right time for me to divorce her. So I served her divorce papers few days ago. She is not happy about it and begging me to not divorce her.
She is blaming it on PPD, I understand that her head was messed up but I dont tolerate cheating. If she had stabbed me or something, I would have forgiven her but I just dont tolerate cheating. So I am proceeding with divorce.
AITAH??
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