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Hello fellow SocalR4R users. I am happy to return the sub to it's previous state, where any and all legitimate members could post looking for others in the Southern California region. I was never in favor of implementing the verification rule and it has largely failed on two fronts.

Firstly, the moderators of the sub have largely gone inactive, hence putting the majority of the verifications submitted on the shoulders of very few mods. To be honest, this happened very quickly after implementation and caused many of the mod team to get burnt out.

Secondly, many of the people who did verify simply deleted their verification photos after verifying, despite the requirement to keep it active. To be frank, we weren't doing a great job of verifying people in a timely manner, we definitely were failing at auditing verification pictures.

As long as I remain a moderator, I will continue to keep the subreddit open to legitimate posters. This means a few things:

- IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO MAKE SURE YOU VERIFY THAT THE THE PEOPLE YOU ARE TALKING TO ARE REAL!!! Seriously. There are tons of catfish and scammers out there. Even people who verify may not be on the level. But for real, we had someone admit that they were paid to verify for another user. Do your own due diligence.

- There may be a few more bots and subscription trolls. They are typically easy to spot, since the are literally EVERYWHERE on the internet. I'm not against creators, but there are plenty of subreddits dedicated to advertising. People on this sub are looking for other actual peoples, not subscribe to your OF or Fansly. If you're interested in how this will work, check out my previous posts here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/SoCalR4R/comments/17qpqrr/update_on_the_state_of_the_subreddit/

I will leave you with the following request: Be excellent to each other. We are all looking for a little fun, some of us are looking for a little more. The person(s) you engage with is/are not some sort of sex dispenser. I am more than happy to drop the ban hammer.

Stay safe!

Mo


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40 [MF4M] #LongBeach - Dreamstate November • 40 [MF4M] #LongBeach - Dreamstate November
Couples

We're a 40yr old couple traveling to Dreamstate in Long Beach this fall and we are looking for a third to make the event that much more fun. We would love to connect with a drug free male who takes care of his body and who would like to dance and play the weekend away. Bi is fine and the bigger the dick the better. Must be into curves and a mom bod and also be attending the event... after all, that IS the entire point!


32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Let’s fool around in public • 32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Let’s fool around in public
M4F

Hello world,

I used to use this subreddit a bunch back in the day but it’s been a while since I’ve met up with someone from here. I’ve always had fun, and it’s been nice meeting new, kinky people, so figured I’d give it a go again.

Ideal scenario is we meet in a public place and fool around where we shouldn’t be. Pick your poison where you want it to be. Mall parking lot? Movie theatre? Secluded hiking trail? Car wash? I’m open to whatever is the most fun, comfortable, and thrilling to you!

About me: 32, white, 6’0”, 172 lbs, fit, been referred to as “super cute” and even the hallowed “hot” at times, light beard, college-educated, I’m into hiking/camping/rock-climbing, movies, board games, concerts, and street photography. Very willing to share face pics and verification details. I am very respectful, down to earth, and easy to talk to, but also quick to flip the switch and get dirty as soon as the mood feels right.

You: 24+, down to earth, based in/close to Los Angeles, someone who enjoys a good flirt and a quick thrill. I have no preferences for height or body type.

Other turns ons: public play, voyeurism, road head, lingerie, biting my ear, dirty language, and positive vocalization/sounds.

Shoot me a chat or DM and we can see where it leads! Happy to exchange pics for verification!


56 [m4F] #southoc - married M looking for a secret Mistress • 56 [m4F] #southoc - married M looking for a secret Mistress
M4F

Hey there,

56 yo married M in South Orange County here craving the touch and taste of another woman and wanting a secret friend to play and explore with, online and/or irl. I'm a switch looking to explore a few of my kinks along with your own.

I want to be dominated and am looking for a Mistress to serve and worship.

All adults are welcome, single or attached. local preferred.

Tell me a kink, fantasy or a juicy secret when you say hi. Or just jump right in and tell me the first thing You want me to do for you.

No OF sellers or pros please


55 [M4F] #SFValley - Looking for a nice girl with daddy issues • 55 [M4F] #SFValley - Looking for a nice girl with daddy issues
M4F

Looking for a very nice girl who has a thing for older men. You're very sexual, curious and get turned on by older men and always fantasizing what it might be like.

I"m a Caucasian/Asian mix, nice looking and fit and love to be around girls who enjoy being lots of foreplay and exploring kinks.

Only looking for those who live near me and ddf and clean like me. Let's chat and meet if we vibe.


30 [M4M] #CulverCity - Hosting tonight for horny straight first timers curious for a warm sloppy mouth milking your hard cock and rimming your hairy asshole and sack; near Mid City/Culver City • 30 [M4M] #CulverCity - Hosting tonight for horny straight first timers curious for a warm sloppy mouth milking your hard cock and rimming your hairy asshole and sack; near Mid City/Culver City
M4M

30, 6', 230 beefy, discreet, low-risk, safe and ddf, looking for horny straight first timers who want to receive dedicated deep oral service and to have your cock worshipped by my warm sloppy mouth. I suck sloppy and throat deep. I love edging, stroking, worshipping cock and double stuffing both balls in my mouth, rimming if you're open and curious about it, and swallowing cum.

Near Culver City arts district and I'm available to host evenings and weekends.

Serious please.


35 [M4F] #sandiego - Looking for a woman to show me the ropes • 35 [M4F] #sandiego - Looking for a woman to show me the ropes
M4F

As someone who is inexperienced sexually, I'm looking for a woman who can basically be a teacher for me. I have done some things like oral, but I've never done actual sex. A kind woman who could help me lose my virginity would be much appreciated.

I consider myself a good listener, and am willing to learn! Some things I'm looking to learn/try:

-Various positions

-Even though I have done oral before (both giving and receiving), I would definitely love to try again.

-How to pleasure a woman.

-I do enjoy giving non-sexual massages (neck, shoulders, arms). So, if that's something you're interested in, I can help with that!

Willing to use protection.

Why am I inexperienced? I grew up religious (not religious anymore). I've also always been socially anxious and shy.

Would prefer someone in SD, but anyone within a couple hours drive is fine too.

Other info about me: Roughly 5'9" and 210 pounds. POC. Single. Mostly shy, but can be talkative in the right situations. Shoot me a chat if you're interested, and I can share more!



27 [F4M] #westhollywood - looking for someone to cum with. • 27 [F4M] #westhollywood - looking for someone to cum with.
F4M

Soaking wet right now i just need someone to help me cum many times. Fuck me like there's no tomorrow, own me ! eat me! Fuck every hole of mine! have no mercy on me ! i just wanna cum ! Fuck my mouth also! til u reach my throat while u finger my pussy ! lets do 69 ! ur head deep between my thights use ur tongue while fingering me faster and faster and really hard ! i wanna feel each every time you go inside me urghhh . that's what on my mind right need someone help me rn plea


43 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Are you a younger girl into older men? Do your friends dads or dad’s friends turn you on? • 43 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Are you a younger girl into older men? Do your friends dads or dad’s friends turn you on?
M4F

Whether you are shy and this is your first time flirting with an older guy or you’ve done it before, be a good girl (please be 18 or over) and say hi🙋‍♀️

Even if you’re shy or nervous, I’d love to gently teach you and mentor you.

I’m white, 6’1” weigh 195 lbs and I have brown hair and brown eyes. I’m also looking to actually meet and not just talk online.


33 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking For A Good Deep Conversation • 33 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking For A Good Deep Conversation
M4F

Hey! How are you doing?

I'm pretty bored at home. I'm looking for a nice conversation. You can rant, vent , or just be light hearted as you want. I'm open minded so don't hold back!

I like many things and don't like many things I'm a bit of a nerd and always love to gain knowledge. I'm an introvert at heart with extrovert qualities.

Love to go out, urban exploration, workout , biking ( for cardio), hiking, hangout with friend's. Love to read Manga, light novel. I could go on and on. I do play video games , I have been playing cod mostly.

Recently took up cooking, it's been very fun. YouTube has been a great help lol I'm learning how to sew, but that one is wayyy harder

I love learning a new language. So far I got some phrases under my belt so please give me more. I could list them but it's alot.

English and Spanish are my main. I've been told I have a nice deep voice [ if we ever call, you decide]

So drop by, tell me about you.

Tell me where you found me



42 [M4F] #DowntownLA - We made it to the weekend! Time for some fun. • 42 [M4F] #DowntownLA - We made it to the weekend! Time for some fun.
M4F

Hey there! Let’s meet up, grab some drinks and snacks, and see where the night takes us. Need someone to unwind with after work over a glass of wine? I'm your guy. Up for a movie or a local concert? Count me in! If we hit it off, great! If not, we can still be awesome friends.

I’m Nick, a 42-year-old living in Downtown LA. I'm 5'10, brown hair, green eyes, super chill and outgoing. I love snowboarding, hiking, racing cars, and hanging out with my pup. Downtown LA is full of amazing bars to explore, and I'm always on the lookout for the next adventure.

Bonus points if you're into sushi, KBBQ, tacos, spicy margaritas, or a good whiskey. No picky eaters or boring people, please! If you're up for meeting someone new, shoot me a message, and let’s chat!


28 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Want to try pegging? • 28 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Want to try pegging?
M4F

It has literally been so long since I’ve posted but hey why not give it a try and see what type of luck I get on here. . I have been pegged once before in the past and let me tell you that I instantly fell in love. Nothing like having your panties put to the side and taking it Hehe I would ideally like to find the right match. Doesn’t matter if you don’t have experience yet and just interested in trying it. It can be a learning experience for both of us.

I’m 28 with a fairly athletic body. I go to the gym around 3-4 times a week. I would love to find a FWB or start an ongoing thing. Everyone is welcome don’t be shy :) Hope I have some luck! If you’re from the OC/IE please feel free to message me, I can travel.


31 [M4F] #NorthHollywood - Would love to use a fuck machine on you (pics inside) • 31 [M4F] #NorthHollywood - Would love to use a fuck machine on you (pics inside)
M4F

Im a 31 yr old Latino looking to meet up with someone that wants to use a fuck machine. People have told me that it's quite intense, especially when its used together with a hitachi wand. Some people have even told me its quite addicting. Ill follow your lead and I dont expect reciprocation.

Im in North Hollywood and I can host or go to you. Let me know if this sounds right for you. Would love to connect soon.

https://imgur.com/a/RIfjFvK https://imgur.com/a/Swfff6z



30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Is it a naughty Uber or UberEats kinda night? - I’m here to fulfill your fantasy • 30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Is it a naughty Uber or UberEats kinda night? - I’m here to fulfill your fantasy
M4F

IMPORTANT:

  1. Females only

  2. If interested, send me a chat with your age, location in LA, and a body picture

  3. Be ready to FaceTime verify

I am an Uber driver that gets pretty bored during the late night hours. I would like to find a passenger that wants to have some naughty fun with an Uber driver.

I would like to find a passenger that wants to be eaten out and wants to meet up. I can take you to your place and make you my pillow princess or maybe if you can't host I can do it in my Audi SUV. I have a blanket and a pillow in the back for your comfort.

Or maybe you want you to be your Uber Eats delivery driver and I can deliver my tongue to your place, which you can use for your pleasure.

I am open to other kinks you may have, just send me a chat.

About me: I'm 30, 5'10, 180 lbs, sane, down to earth, clean shaven face, Caucasian with recent STD tests

About you: Please be 18+, HWP, clean and DDF with recent STD tests

Everything will be descrete and NSA.


45 [M4F] #SealBeach - Erotic Massage 4 the Ladies! • 45 [M4F] #SealBeach - Erotic Massage 4 the Ladies!
M4F

Please contact if serious only please! I'm real you be too. No bots or fakes please.

Ladies, do you have stress in your life and need a release...college, kids, lack of touch and attention, etc?? Let me rub that stress out and help you release and relax. You'll love my experien ed hands all over your body with a nice oil, and a sensual, yet firm, teasing touch! Other options available to ensure you have multiple orgasms (tongue, nice cock). Guaranteed orgasm and maybe even you will squirt! Very open minded and catering to your needs and I encourage communication. I am clean and STD free. You be also! Experienced Masseur with actual training. Hmu! No couples or men contacting me on behalf of their woman. If ad is up I'm available! Testimonials Here: https://imgur.com/a/nMMPjN9


25 [M4F] #LosAngeles - SFV area! ENM, hung and looking for something casual, fun and chill! • 25 [M4F] #LosAngeles - SFV area! ENM, hung and looking for something casual, fun and chill!
M4F

Hello lovely ladies of R4R

I am a 25 cismale, pretty switchy and quite hung. I'm pretty shy and definitely looking for something on the more casual side. I am in a poly/open relationship as well. I'd be more than happy to chat and see if we vibe before jumping ahead to anything. I could possibly host in the future as well. If you're long distance I would love to chat and add you on some apps. Things like toy control/voice chat could be a ton of fun too!

My type is definitely more dommey confident girls, or nerdy (affectionately) ones who like being told what to do! We can trade pictures, interests and all of that kind of thing. I suppose friends with benefits would be the dream. If you have any questions feel free to ask me in the DMs, and I hope to hear from you soon!


18 [M4F] #Riverside - Looking for my first blowjob experience! • 18 [M4F] #Riverside - Looking for my first blowjob experience!
M4F

heyy! im m18 and ive never gotten a blowjob before. just hoping to find someone who would be interested in trying to help me out. i would be willing to do whatever you would want to do as well. im just looking for a fhn first experience and to get to learn a little bit from you.

about me: 5’11, 178lbs, 6’, i like to cook, go out with my friends, play video games, watch tv shows, and playing basketball

thank you if you read this far and please let me know if you would be interested!


29 [M4R] #InlandEmpire - New to Town, Looking for Friends! • 29 [M4R] #InlandEmpire - New to Town, Looking for Friends!
M4R

Hello, I just moved to the area recently. I am located up near Ontario, but don't mind travelling to LA, anywhere in the Inland Empire, or anywhere within ~50 miles from me.

l'm looking for anyone who wants to hang out and/or have interesting conversations! Age isn't so much of a concern since I'm just looking for friends! :) Maybe go to some awesome food places, talk about science / technology, play games, go to some parks (theme parks or otherwise!), go hiking, bike riding, or just hang out and talk about whatever! Whatever SoCal have to offer! Show me around? :)

A little about myself:

I'm 29, physically active and work out, work in/play video games, watch anime, and love going on adventures! Recently moved here for work and lack friends so l'm just wandering around the area by myself trying to find things to do :P

I enjoy talking about technology and science for hours! Enjoy puzzle and board games, maybe we could get a group together and play some! Been also recently checking out the hiking trails here, there's some pretty cool ones! Maybe we could be hiking buddies! Maybe you'd be down to play some League of Legends, Smash, some FPS, an MMO, or something else!

Looking forward to talking! Even if you just want to drop a line to share some of your favorite things to do here, I would love that! Thank you so much :D


24 [M4F] #Redlands - I'd like to have a friend to cuddle with! • 24 [M4F] #Redlands - I'd like to have a friend to cuddle with!
M4F

Hullo! I'm looking for a gal that we could chat and be able to just talk. Along with that I'd like to watch movies and TV show and cuddle too! Perhaps even kiss and more? Maybe even give me my first titjobs?

I like to find new places to eat and take drives. I like hearing about people and discovering their likes and dislikes. Talking about nerdy things or favorite places or if you'd like an ear!

I'd be down to go get coffee and lunch or dinner too. I feel a little bad that I can't perfectly define what I'm looking for. I suppose we could say I'd like to be friends with benefits.

Anyways I'd love to chat and hopefully hang out!


32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - VERIFIED HUNG Puerto Rican seeks size queen • 32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - VERIFIED HUNG Puerto Rican seeks size queen
M4F

I’m an outgoing, intelligent yet very laid back person. I’m Latino of Puerto Rican decent. I seek fun, smiles and passion in the bedroom. I stand 5'11, 180 lbs. with a 9 inches below. I have a very high libido and I enjoy marathon session of deep pussy pounding penetration. Im seeking a multi-orgasmic females who can handle a man with extraordinary size pics and videos in my profile.