I (18F) have been dating my boyfriend Austin (24M) for over 6 months now but as of recently i started using a vibrator during sex. The reason why is because he rarely makes me cum and doesn't seem to even try, so i started using toys on my clit while he fucked me. At first he didn't seem to care until last night after we finished he said "it's a bit selfish of you to use that while we're having sex"
It came as a surprise because he never said anything the other times i used it. I told him it's because i can't cum from only penetration, keep in mind he doesn't like giving head or fingering. But most times i give him a blowjob to start things off he just never gives anything back. and i give really good head like a lot of times he cums during the blowjob before we even start fucking, which is fine because i like sucking dick i just don't wanna feel left out
Soo because of this i resorted to using toys which feels amazing but he doesn't like it. I tried coming to some kind of agreement like asking if he can at least stimulate my clit while he's fucking me or even 69 so we both get stimulated, but he said word for word "real Gs don't eat pussy" .... idek what that means but ok
I do feel kindaa bad because it does seem to bother him i just wish he would see things from my perspective. I'm worried if things don't change i'll get too sexually frustrated and our relationship will take a toll. If i do end up single i hope to find a guy that actually likes eating pussy, it seems rare to find nowadays..
If you know anyone plz send them my way!! in case we breakup i'd like to weigh my options <3