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I saw my husbands Reddit. And I’m sorry.
I saw my husbands Reddit. And I’m sorry.

Saw a TikTok about a girl who “had a good man and then realized he was just a man” by seeing his Reddit’s post, comments, and inbox. My husband fell asleep and I became paranoid. So I heavily investigated his Reddit only to find that he was never cheating or even considering it. He just wants to find a good job for us and proof that he’s giving it his all. My heart breaks for him. What do I do? I’m bad with human connection and affection. But he needs it and I need and want to give it to him. I just don’t know how. Help!


Man i’m dating has “gay” voice and asked me why everyone thinks he’s gay.. do I tell him it’s his voice or keep it to myself?
Man i’m dating has “gay” voice and asked me why everyone thinks he’s gay.. do I tell him it’s his voice or keep it to myself?

i (22F) met this man (25M) on hinge and we hit it off through text. On our first date I noticed that he had a very feminine voice and vocabulary (just like one you would hear in the gay community). He was very sweet and showed a lot of interest in me so I looked past it and we have been on 2 more dates since! It really fades in the background and i don’t even notice it now, however, when we were out at dinner the topic of everyone thinking that he was gay came up. He told me that every time he meets new people and they find out that he likes women they are surprised and tell him that they thought he was gay. He shared with me that it’s something that has bothered him in the past because he doesn’t know why people think that. I honestly was very caught off guard when he brought it up that i couldn’t bring myself to share with him that it’s his voice and vocabulary.

I talked to my mom about it and she said she thinks i should tell him so that he is aware but I honestly don’t think it would be helpful as it isn’t something that he can change… what would you do/want to be done in this situation?


My sisters won’t let me date.
My sisters won’t let me date.

I’m (17m) and my sisters (20, 22, 24) have all their life been overly involved in my life. Especially my oldest sis (24f). She is more like a second mom to me and she keeps check on my grades, school and almost everything.

I was dating a girl (19f) for the first time in my life but she broke up with me after four months because she was a friend of my sister and when my sis found out they had an intense fight and this girl just straight up told me we can’t keep this going and just blocked me everywhere.

I was so mad at my sis but she then involved our older sisters and now they say I’m too young to be dating rn. I told them its none of their business but they say I should finish high school and college first before dating anyone.

I don’t know 🤷 what to do at this point, I’m just waiting for my older two sisters to move out in august then I’ll email that girl again and hope we can start fresh.