r/capricorns

I've heard that Capricorn men may be uncomfortable around strong emotions and crying. Is this true? Am I just never allowed to cry or talk about something difficult I'm going through around my partner? Will I never be able to find comfort in a Capricorn partner? Will they be disgusted by my moments of weakness? I am not a sensitive person, but when my entire world is collapsing, maybe I want to be able to turn to someone I love and have my darkness embraced by them, instead of my friends knowing more of me than my own partner

Need some insight to this, unsure if being jokey/sarcastic is just him being friendly or if i’m being delulu so how would a Capricorn guy show romantic interest or attraction towards you? (We are friends who recently connected)

(i would give more context but i’m scared he’s lurking in here)

Howdy party people. I(36M) am a Sag ☀️, Scorpio 🌙, and Virgo⬆️ and I'm currently in a no contact situation with my Capricorn goatfish lady friend(35F). It started on Valentine's Day and I don't have any doubt in my mind about her not coming back. My problem is not knowing WHEN this will finally end. So my question is, is going no contact part of the Cappie package deal? I understand she needs her space from time to time. I need my space too. But it's been 4 months already and I'm getting ANSTY AF. I really miss her. I can't even attempt to get ahold of her without looking like a jerk for not respecting her boundaries. Anyway, thanks in advance for your answers. I hope this isn't a recurring thing lol

Has anyone else done this? I have known him for 15 years, best friends for 11. we started dating last year and engaged within 7 months. We have the exact same birthday, year, location, and he's a sag rising and I'm Aquarius. Our charts have a ton of synastry due to venus mars trine natally and our venus conjunct or sextile our ascendant.

We have eerily similar life experiences, down to small details. We have had many psychic experiences about eachother for many years, and I recently had a past life regression that blew my mind about us.

I always knew we had a special connection. We always joke that we're twins born in the wrong families just so we could date.

Hello fellow cappies! I'm currently studying and I was wondering what type of student you are/were?

I'm a really bad student tbh, I procrastinate all the time, I don't enjoy learning at all, the only thing that keeps me going is that I simply want a degree lol. I was a "pleasure in class" simply because I loathed any type of human interaction, and barely spoke 😂

Obviously sun sign isn't the only thing at play, but I was wondering in general!

So I’ve heard that when people or anyone in general messes/disrupts a Capricorn’s energy or tries to make their life harder that karma goes back to them without Capricorns trying anything. Is this true? Do Capricorns carry a karmic energy?

As a Capricorn woman, I’ve been seeing it happen when I’m a genuine person that minds my own business but people feel the need to be rude, mean, petty or just do not like me for no reason. I’ve already seen karma work a handful of times either overtime or instantly! Sometimes I get shocked and I cannot believe it like it’s frightening at times. Lastly, so if someone does wrong to any Capricorn, don’t try and get back at them and let your zodiac’s karmic energy run its course.

Hi world!!! im a Capricorn sun, taurus moon, gemini rising as well as a cap stellium. the last 3/4 years of my life have been sooooooooo chaotic with many dramatic changes, heartbreak and losing myself. Has anyone else with these placements ever been in a similar pickle? Also noticed i attract the wrong people too and its been very difficult. I know saturn rules cap too so 🥲

We lost another great of us, the iconic Françoise Hardy. She was a fashion icon, astrologer, and married to a Taurus who was an alcoholic and cheated on her.

Reposez en paix, Madame !

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Hello capricorns! I am new to reddit and this community. I seek advice, if you might help me understand a capricorn male. I am female aquarius/capricorn/capricorn in my thirties so it’s the capricorn i will talk about. We know each other from the internet and we’ve had few face to face interactions in social settings. He has been very kind and flirty if i dare to say.. showing interest in my things, hobbies, always liking posts/stories nd here and dare posting a flirty tweet…a bit shy in person, but so am i… We have so much in common and communication was floaty, brief and friendly to begin with. He sparked my interest and attention due to his incredible facial features and hard work personality. We live in different cities. We saw each other two weeks ago and i was very surprised to see that he has a girlfriend. I didn’t know and his flirty behaviour before sort of showed that he’s available…I just said hello and proceeded to the table of my friends. I sensed his awkwardness this moment and his girl looked at me as i’ve eaten her breakfast 😂I sighted and said to myself that i have to let go even though i like this man. Later that night he was talking to his friends and as i was passing by he made a positive comment about my appearance. I just smiled. On my way back to my table he said hello again so i stopped by. We started casually chatting with him and his friends and a minute later he turned stone cold and stopped interacting with me and taking the attention of his friends out of me. I felt awkward and just left. Two days later he texted me to say that it was nice to see me. I didn’t respond… Honestly i struggle to understand this behaviour. We are adults. I don’t like this situation and i decided to let go of this situation, however I will appreciate your input.. Is this normal male capricorn behaviour?

hi! im a pisces and all of my closest friends / mutuals have been capricorns (both genders), just wanted to say you guys are so grounded and honest and i find it so fun getting through the hard exterior and finding the gushy gooey inside. all of the ones i met act so tough but they always end up being a bunch of softies. it's so cute i love yall 😭💗

Title kinda says it all. I exaggerate a bit when I say obsessed of course, as I feel caps don't usually obsess over others. But at the very least, make you very interested and want to get to know someone? As a Capricorn my self I have my ideas of what I like in people but I'm curious to hear from other caps.

I’ve worked so hard in every aspect of my life and have gained great success. As I continued to evolve and grow, I started realizing people started hating on me. I started getting shade from family members, peers, coworkers, schoolmates, etc. As time progressed, I learned to ignore the haters and continue striving for success.

I’ve always been a genuine kind person to everyone I’ve ever met. I never talked down about anyone, so why do they do it to me? I literally worked so hard in my life for everything and started from nothing, why hate on me for trying my best everyday?

I used to let all of the hate affect me negatively, but now it just inspires me to continue work even harder. I’m grateful for my haters, they motivate me so much. It’s become an unhealthy obsession at this point. We gotta show the world how high of a mountain us goats can climb.

Anyone else got haters?

Just got out of a relationship with one over a month ago and saw a meme about September virgo women and realized that theres some apparent negative stigma about them?

Im ngl my ex was a compulsive liar, hypocrite, and mentally abusive. She lied about small shit like living with her family and the way I found out was I was picking her up one night for a date and saw a shirtless man her in window. You can imagine how that went down. Come to find out, it was her little brother and thats when I found out she lived with her mother, sisters, and her brother and ended up meeting them that night.

When things were fine, she was very loving and caring. Communication was great. Sex was great. Until she would say something out of her neck and I would catch her up in a lie. Idk if its because she wanted me to believe she was something she wasnt but eventually I got sick of it and got out if it. Oh and she texted my mother and said I SA’d her after we broke up. So theres that too.

Hey, I just need a cap male perspective on something. So I’ve been speaking to a cap guy recently and we had our first date which was really chilled just drinks but since he has not been speaking as much. He still messages everyday but they are short and there is no more phonecalls. He says he is busy with work if I question it. I feel like I need more communication from him but I’m not sure how to approach it or if I’m just overthinking. Thanks in advance

F29 was single for 5 yrs after my first serious relationship failed...and I became friends with this guy in our group and to be honest I didn't liked him at first ( i should have trusted my 6th sense) he is not even my type I don't like men who flirt with every thing that walks with a dress lol...me, him and one of my female friend became a good friends we used to hang out together alot and at some point he grew on me because with me he is a completely different person i mean aren't they all lol one night we kissed(we were intoxicated)and we had a strong sexual tension between us that was building up to that night it was intense and the rest is history. but it was one of the things I regreted doing the next moring because, I don't like breaking my own rules which one of them happen to be "don't sleep with a guy you're friends with" anyway we kept seeing eachother for couple of months we both have avoidant attachment kind of personality we never gave it a title we just like eachothers company and we care about eachother atleast that's what I thought until I got pregnant and after thinking it throught I told him about it and that I have decided not to keep it and I asked him to find me the pill to abort it he said "he will check"..and that the last thing I have heard from him ...and me being an avoidant my self I just shut down and never spoke to him again I told my self no answer is an answer it self I realized he doesn't give a shit about me or he never did he was just good at pretending to care and I was to blind to see it when everyone we knew told me he is bad for me I guess I should have listened...the thing is I know am not in love with him it's just the fact that he left me in a time I needed a friend with out even a good bye hurts even more I was there for him as a friend when he went through so many things in his life health wise even financially...now am back to being not interested in or interacting with men this world is such a game zone people will just play with your feelings for fun ...

Note :he is a taurus male and am a capricorn female

Do any other caps have this experience? I have found my self really interested in many other Capricorns in the past but it feels like they are never as interested as I am. Or we might really get each other at first but then usually for seemingly no reason we end up ghosting each other. Being as we are the same sun signs you'd think we'd hit it off? But just never seems to have happened yet. This probably sounds silly but at some point I kind of want to try to meet another Capricorn I can be friends with? Cap x Cap relationships kind of intrigue me. But they seem rare. Don't get me wrong I know there are other things that make people more or less compatible. I guess I'm just overall curious in other people's experiences. Am I the only one? I wonder how many caps reading this have a bff or even partner who's also a cap and how that has worked out for them?

I'm a Cap Sun Taurus Moon and Gemini Rising for anyone who'd like to know. But yeah almost every single guy I've been in a relationship with or close to being in a relationship with has either (1) Lost his job within the first month or two of us dating (2) some dramatic event that happens that affects his job one way or another or (3) some big life change in general

I DON'T GET IT. Why does this happen? This is specifically because I already noticed this pattern before and just started seeing someone who I'm very much interested in for like the first time in a LONG time. I literally even told him about my weird "curse" like two weeks ago and today he just told me he's changing jobs! What the actual f*** I'm so confused! Anyone else have this "curse"?

Oh boy, where to begin.. For a year i crushed on this cap man, we live in the same building. We have talked on and off when we met and had amazing conversation and connection. But he had a girlfriend so he was always very respectful. He told me some weeks ago that he was now single and quickly after that (2 weeks) he texted me if I wanted to meet and talk more, I said yes but unfortunately I was sick, so I would get back to him. 5 days later, he bought me some food and placed it outside my door because I wasn’t feeling well. Today I casually ran into him again and he started taking about his ex, problems the had and still have, even talked about their sex. I was very confused about it, and decided to ask him straight up if he was interested in me in any romantic way, he said yes and suddenly he told me everything, like literally everything! That he thinks I’m beautiful that he couldn’t help but stalk my social media, that he likes the way I am communicating, how we share same outlook on things, same interest and so on and so on. He literally told me that after our last conversation he knew he would ask me out. I was blown away because I had this crush forever, but he had a girlfriend so I clearly didn’t do anything about it. I decided to come clean and tell him about my feelings too. I am a Capricorn myself so I am very direct and honest, but I’m also left with this feeling that it was way to much information he gave, when we maybe have talked 3 hours in total. And why tell me about intimate details about his x and then tell me he’s interested?? I’m soo confused, is it too soon after a break up to be so offensive to me? Like the way he talked and talked and just bursted out that he likes me and wants to date me. Should I just go for it or is this to quick and to good to be true? I’m kinda nervous about the level of trueness when it’s so “easy” to burst out. What do you guys think?

To protect the reputation of my pisces paramour, I’m having to keep our romance on the down low. I got too excited last week and people noticed, and now I’m being asked to back off.

So I’m backing down. I really won’t see her much for the next 3 weeks and left it up to her to re-initiate contact. I’ve never been with anyone like her before, and I’m so head over heels that I forgot my head last week.

Is it over? Is there still life in the romance or is it doomed? I’m so excited to see her again, but I can’t let it show. Help?