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Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - May 27, 2024

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How do you deal with girls who rejected you in their prime but come back to you when they're nearing their 30s while being complete failures in life? How do you deal with girls who rejected you in their prime but come back to you when they're nearing their 30s while being complete failures in life?

In my early 20s I used to like this girl a lot, I would sometimes take her out for dinner and movies. I'm not a simp by any means, I saw this as me getting experience since at that age I was pretty socially inept. Eventually I ended up telling her I liked her and she rejected me, and then some time later even made jokes in front of me about how I was unattractive, which was a low blow considering we were friends then. Well, time went on and now we're both in our late 20s and now she's desperately trying to get back into my life to the point where sometimes she calls my mother to ask about me. I just ignore it because it's pointless to put too much thought into it, but then I start to think about the whole situation and realize how odd it is. She'd would always say how she wasn't looking to get in a relationship but then would date a different guy every couple of months. Every time I think about it I actually get kind of upset. Friends of mine tell me that I should give her a chance and mess around until I find something better, but I have too much pride. Anyone else being in a similar situation?