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/r/self is in need of additional moderators

New Rule - Users are tired at hearing about your penis.
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We have a number of users (many younger than 18) who come in here venting about their small penis. Conversations always end up being hostile, not-good words get thrown around, women are insulted in general, and half of the post ends up getting manually removed.

After NUMEROUS complaints from users regarding these posts, we are removing them with the new Rule 8. Take your penis issues to r/bigdickproblems , r/smalldickproblems , or r/averagedickproblems and have a proper discussion there in a community designed to moderate these posts effectively.

This rule (and all of the rule changes it encompasses) will be trialed for 1 month.


Slept with a trans woman and now confused about my sexuality. Slept with a trans woman and now confused about my sexuality.

I'm 26(m). I matched with a trans woman on tinder. I didn't know she was trans but she ended up telling me. Between not having sex since highschool I didn't really care anymore. This was probably the most affection I've recieved in over 9 years. She was very nice and she made me comfortable, even though I struggled with social anxiety. I'm not sure if I'm bisexual or not. I want to keep pursuing but I'm terrified if someone I know sees me in public with her. Whether it's friends, coworkers or even family. I know it may seem silly but I struggle with low self esteem.