r/socialskills

When spending time with friends and acquaintances, this question sometimes comes up. I answer honestly, despite feeling some shame..

Although, I wonder if I’m making it harder for myself by saying, “I actually haven’t had sex with anyone yet”. Especially in front of crushes, friends I look up to, etc.

I am not sure if I’m being treated differently because of it. Though it makes the whole convo awkward and die out LOL

Examples of this topic coming up include party board game that has “the person with the highest body count takes a shot” or just casual conversations.

Let me know if I should provide more information on the conversations.

Like what are some common topics or discussion that keep conversations flowing?

Lately, I've been paying a lot of attention to how I speak, and I always say thank you. Does anyone know why this happens? Literally, I always say thank you for everything, even when it's not necessary or when I do something for someone else 😅