My mom passed away last year, the day before my birthday, after over 5 months of suffering. She didn't know how bad she was and then it was too late to make a will. She even mentioned this to me the last time I saw her, a couple of weeks before she passed. She apologized to me, and even said that since her husband was getting it I probably wouldn't see a penny of it. Because of the state she passed in all the inheritance went to her husband. I was on good terms with him and he agreed to share half of it with me, to my suprise. It was nice to know I could trust him, and he was the only thing left I had that was connected to my mother. All of my other family has passed away, so I'm all on my own.
After many months of going back and forth with him and trying to figure out when he would send me the money I realized he was lying to me. He kept giving me excuses, and stories about how he'd send it to me tomorrow, next week, next month! It never stopped. At one point he told me he had a relative in Europe that left him a million dollars and if I could just wait until he got that he would double what he told me he would give me.
Finally I had enough of being jerked around and I told him I thought he was lying. He blocked my number. There was nothing I could do... or was there?
It's not much, but I realized that while I could not see his friends list on FB, I could see all his posts where his friends commented. I could see all the birthday wishes left on his profile. So I went to to all of those people and sent them a carefully crafted message about what happened and how much money he got.
The thing about my mom's husband is that their whole relationship he was dealing with issues his brother caused when their father passed and the brother stole the power of attorney and stole all of the inheritance. All of his friends and family have been hearing stories about how shit his brother is and how he was going to pay. Now this man is doing to me what his brother did to him.
Even if his friends don't care about him being a bad person, maybe they would be interested in knowing how much money he got. I've heard the stories about people winning the lottery and how all their friends and family turned on them. I'm hoping he will get some shit from some people, and even more people contacting him with their hands out. I hope he ends up with no one on his side, so he'll know how I feel being on my own.