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in this life, there are nothing but possibilities.

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New Castle News, Pennsylvania, September 7, 1929

News-Journal, Mansfield, Ohio, November 11, 1938

The Albany Capital, Missouri, February 15, 1940

The Press Democrat, Santa Rosa, California, May 24, 1942

The Daily Tribune, Wisconsin Rapids, Wisconsin, September 21, 1946

Freeport Journal-Standard, Illinois, May 7, 1948

The Eugene Guard, Oregon, November 1, 1948

Ironwood Daily Globe, Michigan, October 18, 1951

Herald and News, Klamath Falls, March 31, 1953

The Times, San Mateo, California, January 5, 1954

The Paris News, Texas, May 13, 1954

The La Crosse Tribune, Wisconsin, May 31, 1957

The Daily Herald, Provo, Utah, January 20, 1958

The Edwardsville Intelligencer, Illinois, November 10, 1959

The Press Democrat, Santa Rosa, California, November 17, 1961

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Ridiculous yet effective ways to deal with Executive Dysfunction

Dealing with executive dysfunction and ADHD becomes so much easier when you stop trying to do things the way you feel like you should be able to do them (like everyone else) and start finding ways that actually work for you, no matter how “silly” or “unnecessary” they seem.

For years my floor was constantly covered in laundry. Clean laundry got mixed in with dirty and I had to wash things twice, just making more work for myself. Now I just have 3 laundry bins: dirty (wash it later), clean (put it away later), and mystery (figure it out later). Sure, theoretically I could sort my clothes into dirty or clean as soon as I take them off and put them away straight out of the dryer, but realistically that’s never going to be a sustainable strategy for me.

How many garbage bins do you need in a bedroom? One? WRONG! The correct answer is one within arms reach at all times. Which for me is three. Because am I really going to get up to blow my nose when I’m hyperfocusing? NO. In allergy season I even have an empty kleenex box for “used tissues I can use again.” Kinda gross? Yeah. But less gross than a snowy winter landscape of dusty germs on my desk.

I used to be late all the time because I couldn’t find my house key. But it costs $2.50 and 3 minutes to copy a key, so now there’s one in my backpack, my purse, my gym bag, my wallet, my desk, and hanging on my door. Problem solved.

I’m like a ninja for getting pout the door past reminder notes without noticing. If I really don’t want to forget something, I make a physical barrier in front of my door. A sticky note is a lot easier to walk past than a two foot high cardboard box with my wallet on top of it.

Executive dysfunction is always going to cause challenges, but often half the struggle is trying to cope by pretending not to have executive dysfunction, instead of finding actual solutions.

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kasettetape

Wow actual stuff about executive dysfunction on here, this is so helpful thank you

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Sorry if you're starstruck - blame it on the stardust - I know that I'm perfect, even though I'm fucked up; hymn for the hymnless, don't need no forgiveness, 'cause if there's a heaven, don't care if we get in

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why’s this site so weird about horses? they’re just horses.

Are you sure

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susiephone

i can’t believe friday, september 1, 2017, is nineteen years later. the last scene in the harry potter books.

this is it.

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did you know there are bisexual flowers and they’re perfect

it says so right there in my bio textbook i would never lie to you 

perfect (bisexual)

reblog if you are a perfect bisexual, support perfect bisexuals, or just really love flowers

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you know that feeling when you’re on your period and you take a shower and you feel so clean and relieved and nice but then as soon as you turn the water off it’s a race against you, gravity and time

I swear the last line made it feel like the plotline of an action film

It is a period drama

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Tired | Langston Hughes

“Tired” Langston Hughes

I am so tired of waiting. Aren’t you, For the world to become good And beautiful and kind? Let us take a knife And cut the world in two— And see what worms are eating At the rind.

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now is not the time to make pastel “punch nazis” edits and shirts and stickers. your performative allyship is unwanted and greatly unappreciated! now more than ever is the time for goyim to actually get active in their activism. you should be listening to Jewish people and boosting our voices. you should be calling out casual antisemitism and working on that which you harbor. it is not, it never was, and never will be the time to sit back and watch as antisemitism continues to rise. goyim can and should reblog.