this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here
I went out on a date from a girl I met in a dating app, it was going well (according to me) and I eventually tried to kiss her. She pushed away and said "sorry, I just feel more of a friend's vibe between us". I am not up for losing my time, and I'm not looking for friends, so I just immediately said "OK, thank you for your time, I'll head home now", paid for my drink and left. She looked pretty phased as I was getting up and wouldn't stop apologising
Some acquaintances have told me it was "an asshole move" to leave her like that and that I should have carried on, but what's the point in doing that? Feels a bit stupid IMO, but maybe I'm the asshole