How many days a week do you avoid major emotional upheavel related to events in your own life? Crying over fiction is recreational, and should not be included in this poll. In this case unhappiness requires being in serious emotional distress for over one hour.
Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you. They don't give you the silent treatment. They don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond—they patiently hold a safe space for you.