r/MAFS_AU

We have been watching MAFS au for quite some time... Got to that episode where Jack says muzzle your wife and me and my bf discusses it (like we do most of the drama). Honestly, it's been quite a season and we could never agree about Jack and how he influences people around him (Tori, Jono). I always saw them as victims of a very mulipulative and toxic men (Jack). He doesnt agree, saying they both just as toxic as he is because they stand by his side and support him (especially Tori). Then the fight happen and he didnt LIKE the comment he made. I was quiet. Then we watched the next episode, where the judges/therapists call out Jack and every other male in the group for beeing quiet. I poused the episode. We discussed it. And he was upset with the judges as in why are they blaming eveybody else ad well (not just Jack). I explaint that IF U STAY SILENT U ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM, and i stand by that. He didnt agree, got into our first argument (we've been together for almost a year). It didnt metter how much i tried to explain that if u stay silent u allaw this kind of behaviour...not that he just didnt get it he disagreed!! Saying why does he need to stend up and point out that kind of behavior (going on about not chaning a thing)!! I was extremely upset, even more when he started blaming Tori (who i see as a victim), why didn't she do anything...

Am i the problem? Am i too emotional and unresenable? Ohh and Im 21. (sorry for grammar mistakes, english its not my first language)

I’m on season 10 episode 23…

TAYLA: I just cannot get over how horrible Tayla is and I cannot believe how much Hugo lets her talk over him. My personality would never be able to tolerate that. I would be raising my voice, interrupting her back, and I absolutely would’ve never tolerated any of the stuff she’s said/done. But I am more of a Type A personality than Hugo.

Please tell me Hugo has grown a backbone and a voice of his own after the show.

And I really hope Tayla has GROWN 👏UP👏.

MEL: When Harrison creates a lie about her relationship with Layton , she nearly has a full on meltdown. Layton tells her he never said that and he deeply cares for her and that everything is good. But for some reason, just hyper fixates on Harrison’s words instead of focusing on Layton. if I were Layton, I would also be very annoyed by this because paying attention to someone like Harrison just gives them fuel. the best reaction to Harrison would be no reaction at all.

Hear the lie, acknowledge the lie, get the confirmation you needed from your partner, and move on knowing that Harrison cannot win.

This season just seems to be an absolute shit show. Was anyone there for love?

And also , when are they actually going to have the therapist give one-on-one type therapy sessions to the couples when they need it like they do in the U.S. show? Because they definitely need it.