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We have persistent scammers preying on this community
u/AutoModerator
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Folks, a reminder that Rule 3 focuses this community's scope on providing emotional support only. We do not allow solicitation or material offers.

This means OPs cannot hint at or ask for money, and community members cannot offer money or food. There are local services that can verify and address a person's situation better than any of us can (and many services will not turn people away if they are asking for it). A kind community member offered a scammer a job and that is okay.

This community is read by millions of people, and scammers around the world know this. We have cultivated an empathic community so we know it can be hard to resist offering material help. It takes only one person to make it worth it because it costs nothing to post. That is why the rules are strictly enforced.

There are many signs of a scammer. They will present a financially desperate situation often with a highly emotional component. They are likely to mention payment services. They may have payment services in their Reddit profile and ask people to look at their profile. They will ask people to privately message them. All of these behaviors may be obfuscated with weird spacing and other ways to evade detection. If they evade detection it's up to the community to report it. Do not call out OPs, report only.

Thank you for your cooperation.

I use my roommates face towel to clean up his pee. He still hasn't noticed.
u/BootyChickSunny
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I use my roommates face towel to clean up his pee. He still hasn't noticed.

I go to college in midwest United States. I live in a dorm an have a roommate who shares a bathroom with me. He's not from the United States and seems a little nervous to talk to anybody who isn't from his home country. The first few weeks of college, I started to notice pee on the toilet seat. No big deal, I cleaned it up. After about the 10th time, I asked him if he could stop peeing on the toilet seat, or if he does, wipe it up. He said okay and went on his day. About 3 months later, I started to notice pee all over the floor, toilet seat, and all around the toilet; worse than before. I used my own toilet paper and started going through it very quickly, so it was getting expensive. I ended up walking over to his side of the counter and grabbing one of his extra towels. I've been using it to clean pee for about 1 month now and I've definitely noticed a change in color due to the urine and the fact that I've never seen him wash it.

I am in a hetero marriage. But I think I’m gay 100%.
u/Remarkable_Bee_9533
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I am in a hetero marriage. But I think I’m gay 100%.

I am 25f. I have known for years that I’m bisexual. And my husband knows I’m bisexual. I’ve kinda joked but it wasn’t a lie and told him he’s my straight card, I like women more but he’s my exception. As I get older I have come to realize I don’t think I’m bi, I think I’m 100% a lesbian. I kinda feel like sex to me is a bonding experience and I don’t necessarily love it but I love bonding with my husband. Does that make sense? Looking back to when I was a child I can think of random girl crushes I had. Like girl characters in shows and actresses. I remember when I was way too young I would look up boobs and girls kissing on the computer. I remember a scene in Charlie’s angles where all them are naked and I would replay that over and over. But I honestly don’t remember ever having a guy crush like that. Yea I had little crushes on kids at school but idk. I don’t want to ruin my marriage. I don’t even want to be with anyone else. I have 2 kids with my husband. My husband has said a couple of times he worries I’ll leave him for a woman. I do love him. I am a little worried because I do feel like I hold a little resentment towards him. Idk. I feel like I get sad or something about this and it turns into anger.