I realized why they hit such a nerve. They are creating and fabricating what does not exist for them while showing off what we so badly lack.
They show off what could alleviate the stress for a lot of us (access to mental health care, money for things like nannies and trips and anything they could possibly want). And then they sell a story that they were traumatized by having exactly what we so desperately need and many will never get. It's like watching the Hunger Games. I wish it would stop making them friends and money.