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We shape its metal. You shape its soul.
this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here
AITAH? I (30 female)am a work from home mom with two children, male 9 and female 1. We also have 3 dogs. I recently got married to my husband (34 male). My youngest is ours and my son is from a different relationship. Recently we built our house and I walk our dogs on leashes multiple times a day because we haven’t had a fence installed yet. I also take care of our one year old while I work. My son is also in 2 sports and it keeps us pretty busy.
Yesterday my husband mentioned that l needed clean our dogs ears. So I said, why can’t you do it? He said, “I’m going to say this once and I mean it. YOU ARE HOME ALL DAY”. I should mention that this is his dog that he got before me and I do all of the other chores for all three of our dogs (groomers, vet, feed and take them out even when he is home)I was angry and he walked away.
Well this morning I was still angry and he asked if I was still pissed? “Because he didn’t say anything crazy and he thinks there is ALOT more I can do during the day.” Mind you I work a full time corporate job from home with our 1 year old. He said I can make time for the things I “want to do” instead of the things he needs. I also should mention that I do all of the cleaning, cooking, shopping and running my son to sports and his dad. The only thing he takes responsibility for is pulling weeds out of the yard (we have a lawn company who mows). He is supposed to take the trash to the curb and has forgot so many times. I also pack his lunches and do all of his laundry.
I am at my wits end and so stressed out. He can tell I’m frustrated with his lack of help and this has just sent me over the edge, AITAH?
**edit: since it has come up in the comments, we need me to work. I make majority of our income.
**edit again: since everyone is coming at me for this being “rage bait” or a fake profile. Yes I created a profile this morning and no I’ve never used Reddit before, thanks to TikTok and the podcasts that read these posts, I decided to come here. The internet is a crazy place. I never thought I would have to defend myself on being real.
