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What "naughty" things do you do with your pre-teens to let them feel grown-up? What "naughty" things do you do with your pre-teens to let them feel grown-up?

Basically, my niece is 9yo and having a shit week. School girl drama that in the grand scheme of things don't matter - but for now, she is breaking her little heart and I've made it my mission to cheer her up this weekend.

I've told her she can come over for a "grown up" sleepover to cheer her up - but what's something super special and "naughty" (but actually like, totally allowed) we can do?

Goes without saying bed time will be late, we'll eat whatever she desires - but I'm thinking like when I was young and thought drinking grape juice out of a wine glass was peak sophistication and I was basically 21.

I want to give her the age-appropriate equivalent experience of smoking menthols on a sunny European balcony and drinking champagne at a spa all weekend 😅 - what are your top tips?