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I 19 male think my girlfriend 20 female is cheating on me but won't admit it I 19 male think my girlfriend 20 female is cheating on me but won't admit it
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I 19 male and my girlfriend 20 female have been dating for about a year now. Everything was amazing at the start, we went on dates and I paid for everything she needed. I found out that she was in a situation-ship at the start of things and I told her to never speak to me again. I then apologized and said that I didn't mean it, but then the guy found out about me and had bed time with her best friend as revenge. I had chosen to forgive her and move on with things because I believe in seconds chances. Things went on great for about 8 months but now she is starting to get distant with me. I have done everything for her since the day we got together, cook, clean, I paid for the bills and she wanted to focus on her teaching degree so she went to school part time and worked as a teacher part time, lately she replies to me only once every few days and I haven't spoken to her in months. I have been trying to communicate my feelings in a healthy way but when I talk to her she always replies with "my bad" and doesn't say anything else for another couple of days. This has been going on for a few months now and I feel like my love for her is fading. I am still trying to communicate with her and she never seems interested. She told me to go away today, and it hurts a lot. I have been asking her to tell me at least over the phone if not in person and she tell me that she doesn't want to and I will have to accept it over text. I don't know what I should do at this point, I would really appreciate any guidance...