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NewsMillie Bobby Brown uses Taylor Swift lyric to announce her engagement (i.redd.it)

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[–]xmaslightsinjanuary 4845 points4846 points  (32 children)

Lover lyrics?? In this climate? j/k

[–]dailyqt 1475 points1476 points  (1 child)

Salt in the wound like you're laughin right at me:(

[–]kinnegartoot 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Noooooo

Lmao

[–]ForeverBeHolden 204 points205 points  (6 children)

I used this lyric for my engagement back in October and even the feels too close lol

[–]Magical_Narwhal_1213Red (Taylor's Version) 85 points86 points  (1 child)

I used this Lyric in my wedding vows in august cuz we had been together for three summers lol

[–]ForeverBeHolden 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I could not pass it up for my engagement post considering it fit so perfectly so us in that moment! It will always be a classic.

[–]wordpusher 19 points20 points  (3 children)

I used the song to come down the isle in September. 😢

[–]Alert_Knee_5862 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i’m still gonna use it to walk down the aisle in 2025 🤷🏼‍♀️

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    [–][deleted] 124 points125 points  (5 children)

    I laughed so hard at this 😂

    [–]thatssokaitlin 84 points85 points  (1 child)

    Read the room!!!!!!

    [–]grilsrgood 34 points35 points  (0 children)

    Truly a cruel summer

    yea it's spring dont think about it too much

    [–]birdsandrivers 26 points27 points  (3 children)

    Right? Kind of a bad omen 🥴

    [–]daisyisqueen 51 points52 points  (0 children)

    Storm coming, good husband Bad omen Dragged my feet right down the aisle 😬

    [–]Heraartaxis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

    See the vultures circling dark clouds

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      [–][deleted] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

      LMAO

      [–]topsidersandsunshine 20 points21 points  (0 children)

      She probably scheduled the post in advance and then no one thought to cancel it. Haha.

      [–]Kitler0327Foolish One enjoyer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

      Honestly, read the room 😂

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        [–]Princessleiawastakenlyrical smile, indigo eyes 2131 points2132 points  (18 children)

        I’m not surprised people see the Lover lyric as bittersweet given the recent breakup, but it’s such a beautiful love song that has grown into being more than just a declaration of love between Taylor and Joe. Taylor doesn’t create music just for herself, but for everyone listening. She wants people to relate the lyrics to their own lives, not hers.

        “These songs were once about my life. Now they are about yours.”- Taylor in the 1989 album booklet

        [–]prisonerofazkabantsi wish you left me wondering 659 points660 points  (5 children)

        she also said (i think during red) that even the love songs she writes for people she's no longer with, she doesn't regret. because it was a beautiful, honest representation of how she felt at that time, and just because you're no longer with someone it doesn't mean those good times you shared together never happened.

        [–]ItsAndieHerereputation 228 points229 points  (0 children)

        This is why I’m still saying Joe didn’t do anything to warrant any hate or fans disliking/joking about him. As far as we know, it was a great relationship than ran it’s course, and it’s nobody’s fault that it didn’t work out longer-term (and six years IS already long-term!)

        The fact that Joe at one point made Taylor feel emotions that led to Lover existing as a song? That’s beautiful. I’m glad she got to feel that.

        [–]adunofaiur 92 points93 points  (1 child)

        That’s how I’m feeling about rep and Lover after a breakup. Every ounce of feeling I’ve ever had for her was so real, and it will never stop being important to me that I loved her.

        But it was too delicate, and after a death by a thousand cuts we just can’t have nice things.

        [–]kronosreddit22 62 points63 points  (0 children)

        I think Phoebe put this perfectly when she praised Taylor for how inspirationally authentic and “true” her lyrics were as a young songwriter. Sure, the problems and worldview that Taylor held in the lyrics of Debut and Fearless feel small and outdated to her now, but that doesn’t make them “cringe” or “bad” — they were real feelings put to paper, and that’s what makes them good, that’s what makes them real!

        If people only wrote about shit that lasted forever we’d only be hearing songs about the sun, and you can’t beat the one that the Beatles wrote (and even then, the Sun will one day too extinguish)

        [–]Readvoter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

        It was rare. I was there. I remember it, all too well. 😭✊🏻

        [–]PandaDeusa sad song about fall 66 points67 points  (0 children)

        I forgot about that quote and it's so accurate for Taylor's music ❤️

        [–]halpal95 27 points28 points  (0 children)

        It’s my wedding song - I’m lucky it has a deeper meaning for me because you’re totally right, she created it for us too 🤍

        [–]newgirlfan101the rust that grew between telephones 14 points15 points  (0 children)

        omg i love that quote so much why am i getting emotional

        [–]snuffleupagus86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

        Yeah I refuse to see it as bittersweet. Lover was our first dance at our wedding in December. It is perfect 💗

        [–]musiquescentsLover 7 points8 points  (0 children)

        😭😭😭

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          [–]ImYourPizzaGuy 1947 points1948 points  (39 children)

          Drake cryin in the club rn

          [–]jazzinitupyou can hear it in the silence 236 points237 points  (1 child)

          good 😌

          [–]habitual_squirrel 210 points211 points  (6 children)

          The cackle I cacked LOL

          Legit startled my dog lol

          [–]lacroixlitei don't like a gold rush 9 points10 points  (1 child)

          Losing my mind over “cacked”

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            [–]mellb00 136 points137 points  (2 children)

            Drake's in his feelings more than Drake

            [–]Quite_Successful 110 points111 points  (4 children)

            Na, she aged out like 3 years ago

            [–]GrandmaPoses 110 points111 points  (3 children)

            She'll always be eleven in his heart.

            [–]LC1903 25 points26 points  (0 children)

            Bars

            [–]anotheroneigreputation 7 points8 points  (0 children)

            This was bad and good LOLL

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              [–]chloedever 52 points53 points  (0 children)

              I just saw drake fall to his knee in the club

              [–]Penelopeep25folklore 17 points18 points  (1 child)

              HAHAHA sobbing at this

              [–]VisibleCow8076I DONT KNOW YET OKAY?!? 12 points13 points  (0 children)

              Think this is my favorite comment ever

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                [–]themedicswiftieargumentative antithetical dream girl 1636 points1637 points  (219 children)

                Isn’t she like 19 😳 I mean, good for her and I obviously hope it works out

                [–]Dull_Cup_2618 1517 points1518 points  (151 children)

                if i married who i thought i loved at 19… we’d all be in trouble

                [–]jurassic_snark_ 1091 points1092 points  (120 children)

                Why was the guy we all dated when we were 19 the most toxic boyfriend we’ve ever had? Like, as a collective

                [–]butteryourbiscuitscutting me open then healing me fine 266 points267 points  (4 children)

                wait is this a universal truth? because definitely true for me *shudder*

                [–]Taograd359 250 points251 points  (7 children)

                Because everyone is an absolute dumbass at that age. You just got out of high school and you think you know everything in the world, but you’re still a stupid kid who’s too stupid to realize you’re a stupid kid?

                [–]jurassic_snark_ 135 points136 points  (2 children)

                Can confirm, I have never been stupider at any point in my life than I was when I was 19 years old.

                [–]cicimindy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                Ya I feel like every emotion I felt as a teenager was just super extreme. Like if I had a crush it felt like I was super in love. Young celebrities actually have the financial means and freedom to act on these kinds of feelings more easily too.

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                  [–]the_rebeccaRed 120 points121 points  (15 children)

                  Well I'm married to the guy I was dating at 19...but we also didn't get married until 24 because we felt way too young 😬 Everytime I see teenagers getting engaged I just want to shake them and tell WAIT A COUPLE YEARS

                  [–]lizerlfunkOH LORD 71 points72 points  (4 children)

                  I married mine at 22! But in retrospect I’m like “omg I was a BABY.” But he died when I was 31 so I’m glad we got 8 years of marriage.

                  [–]birds-of-gayfolklore 39 points40 points  (1 child)

                  That fuckin sucks, I hope you're doing good these days

                  [–]lizerlfunkOH LORD 59 points60 points  (0 children)

                  Thank you! I’m doing well. It’s been about 6.5 years and a lot has happened in that time. You never get over it but you get through because there’s no alternative. And I’m going to see Taylor on Friday so I’m automatically in a great mood because of that 😂😂

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                    [–]jurassic_snark_ 35 points36 points  (0 children)

                    Yes! Exactly. I met my husband when I was 20 and married him at 26. Even if it’s the right guy, bad timing can change everything. There’s no rushing “forever” so you might as well wait until your brain is fully developed to walk down the aisle… just in case.

                    [–]karikammi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

                    Hey that is me and my husband too! We were together since 17 though and we’re 36/37 now. Married at 24 and glad we waited to have started our careers even when we knew at 18 that this was forever. Living our best life with our two girls now.

                    [–]krysteline 16 points17 points  (0 children)

                    I started dating my husband at 17, and we got married when I was 29. That was mostly him being slow to commit though 🤣

                    [–]PravanaTo live for the hope of it all 11 points12 points  (2 children)

                    I did the same, but we’re getting divorced now. To my credit, he also threw the relationships with his 3 lifelong best friends down the drain along with our marriage. We had been dating for 13 years and married for 6 of those. He wasn’t visibly toxic until he hit 30, and I realized it was over when he started openly saying unkind (and untrue) things about my mom, who has done nothing but love and support the both of us and proceeded to gaslight me. I feel stupid for believing he was a good person who would always have my back like I had his. 🙃

                    Waiting can help a lot of times, but sometimes it’s just still bad luck.

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                      [–][deleted] 115 points116 points  (15 children)

                      It’s because they played guitar and had tattoos. We’re all a bunch of suckers.

                      [–]TheLastofthePoets 55 points56 points  (0 children)

                      They probably weren’t Jon Bon Jovi’s son though.

                      [–]nymeriasedai1989 33 points34 points  (4 children)

                      Tattoos and a motorcycle for me haha!

                      [–]andiiiieee✨️Nice!✨️boy ed 29 points30 points  (2 children)

                      Mine could not afford a motorcycle

                      [–]snakeysagdo you miss the rogue who coaxed you into paradise 19 points20 points  (0 children)

                      mine had all three 😭😭

                      [–]IzzyfromScotiaroarin' twenties 33 points34 points  (1 child)

                      I dated an out of touch engineer at 19 who was extremely against tattoos and couldn't understand any music outside bro country.

                      I would have rather the tattood guitar player - as a tattood guitar player.

                      [–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

                      No babe, you deserve better. Fuckboys come in all shapes and sizes. It’s not just a phase, they never grow out of it.

                      [–]LastOnBoard300 takeout coffees later 9 points10 points  (0 children)

                      Oh sh*t I feel seen lol

                      [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                      Artist for me!

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                        [–]Exciting_Disaster_66 109 points110 points  (3 children)

                        Me, a 19 year old, thinking about the guys I’ve been into at this age: 😳

                        Edit: The dude I’m talking to just left me on read after not hearing from him in 11 days. We used to talk every day, but now he’s average one sentence in the chat on snap every 8-10 days. He opens my actual snaps even less than that, doesn’t watch my snap stories, or my Instagram stories, and hasn’t liked one of my posts since Halloween. I don’t even HAVE his phone number. Your point has been proven y’all 🫠

                        [–]SoalaiNever knew I could feel that much 36 points37 points  (0 children)

                        That's why there's literally two Taylor songs about it 😭

                        [–]Bay-Area-Tanners 33 points34 points  (4 children)

                        The guy I dated at 19 is and was a lovely person; things just didn’t work out.

                        The guys I dated from 21-24, on the other hand—yikes. As one commenter mentioned below, I can confirm they were chock-full of guitars and tattoos.

                        [–]AltAccount01010102 36 points37 points  (1 child)

                        My ex at 19 broke up with me by changing his relationship status on Facebook from with me to his new girlfriend. He didn’t tell me, just changed it and then blocked me.

                        So what I’m saying is yes.

                        [–]ClaraGilmore23 29 points30 points  (0 children)

                        deaaaaar jooooohn

                        [–]cjmangos 28 points29 points  (0 children)

                        My ex boyfriend that I had at nineteen is in prison now lmao

                        [–]FarAd7075Speak Now (Taylor's Version) 22 points23 points  (0 children)

                        the accuracy 💀

                        [–]roastbeefbee 23 points24 points  (5 children)

                        My boyfriend at 19 is on his 8th “serious” relationship because he can’t stand dating someone for more than two years. I’m besties with his brother and wife and I’ve seen his niece and nephew more than he (never) has. He only talks to me when he’s in between gfs and then forgets I’m married with kids.

                        [–]jurassic_snark_ 9 points10 points  (1 child)

                        The one that got away 💔

                        [–]Soggy-Finance926 9 points10 points  (1 child)

                        And you know in his mind he’s thinking he’s such a catch and you’re missing out lmao

                        [–]roastbeefbee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                        People always say they wish we worked out, and I’m like ARE YOU SERIOUS? Lol. I do get pride knowing I’m his parents favorite ex. 😂

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                          [–]VanGoghNotVanGowhat a shame she's fucked in her head 23 points24 points  (5 children)

                          I'm engaged to the guy I dated at 19! Been together for 12 years now!

                          Edit: But he definitely wasn't the motorcycle riding, tattoo-havibg, smoking with his boys guitarist you all seem to have dated. He was just a software engineer student, who didn't drink, partied, and loved Lord of the Rings, hahah.

                          [–]jurassic_snark_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                          Glad to see you escaped the cycle lol. I am married to the man I met at 20 so it didn’t take long for me to learn my lesson but it certainly was a wild ride to get to him

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                            [–]regularsizedrudy49 22 points23 points  (0 children)

                            I just audibly gasped because the guy I dated when I was 19 was the most manipulative sociopathic asshole I've ever had the misfortune of coming across....and at 19 I thought he was great 😂

                            [–]lizerlfunkOH LORD 10 points11 points  (1 child)

                            I married the guy I loved at 19 (though I didn’t actually marry him until I was almost 23) and then he had the audacity to die when I was 31. It does seem like LOTS of people had super toxic boyfriends at 19 though!

                            [–]prettyinpink2092on my vigilante sht 9 points10 points  (0 children)

                            I didn't date her but the girl I loved at 19 was so beyond toxic. She still stalks me online years later and I caught her doing it last year. Let it go babes

                            [–]missunderstood_96 6 points7 points  (2 children)

                            Omg my 19 year old boyfriend cheated on me LOL

                            [–]Plus_Purpose7867 9 points10 points  (1 child)

                            Girl same.

                            I saw a meme once that was like "Was your boyfriend at 19 hot or was he just tall?" And that spoke to me.

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                              [–]Greedy_Philosopher14 123 points124 points  (7 children)

                              Not me upvoting even though I married my high school sweetheart 😆

                              [–]GroinFlutter 72 points73 points  (3 children)

                              loool same, we’ve been together 13 years and I’m like fuck yea so toxic

                              [–]Greedy_Philosopher14 49 points50 points  (2 children)

                              Together 22 years and im still like on the fence 😂

                              [–]GroinFlutter 18 points19 points  (1 child)

                              To be completely fair, I was probably not the best partner at 19 😅😅

                              [–]Greedy_Philosopher14 18 points19 points  (0 children)

                              “It’s me! Hi! Im the problem, it’s me!” 😂

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                                [–]tvp204folklore 11 points12 points  (0 children)

                                And that’s why I’m divorced

                                [–]petlandstockroom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

                                If Taylor got married at 19 it would be......😳

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                                  [–]Justalittleconfusingreputation 179 points180 points  (9 children)

                                  Wait…19, three summers…16???? Oh sweetie, I hope he is less than 24.

                                  Edit: he is 20. Okay good for them. I met my husband at 19 (he was also 19). We have been together for 19 years (20 this summer). Good for her! Hope those crazy kids make it :)

                                  [–]SuspiciousLambSauceStarved my body like I’d be saved by a perfect kiss 135 points136 points  (4 children)

                                  Yeah I remember her being the same age as me and when I read the title I was like “excuse me… what?” I’m still here deciding what university should I study in and which course should I take, and girl’s already getting engaged 🤯

                                  I mean, she’s always been on the mature side of things tbf, even on talk shows and interviews she’s always talked and behaved a lot more mature than people her age but still, this is mind blowing to me lol, she most probably knows what she’s doing though so congrats for her!

                                  [–]themedicswiftieargumentative antithetical dream girl 8 points9 points  (1 child)

                                  Haha I get it. Good luck on your uni decisions!

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                                    [–]PATX3Midnights 52 points53 points  (1 child)

                                    And he’s 20. Young love! 💜

                                    [–]themedicswiftieargumentative antithetical dream girl 25 points26 points  (0 children)

                                    Young indeed! 😅

                                    [–]hopeymik 26 points27 points  (9 children)

                                    My brother got married at 19, and that was 6 years ago. They now have a baby girl together 🥰 When it’s right it’s right!

                                    [–]GrandmaPoses 58 points59 points  (3 children)

                                    Ah yes, children, the true barometer of a relationship built to stand the test of time.

                                    [–]WonderfulShelter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                                    Oh yeah, who doesn't get married early and then has a kid to try and make things work better and doesn't end up having a perfect married life?

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                                        [–]LilyMarie90folklore 22 points23 points  (0 children)

                                        [insert early season 3 Hopper face] 💀

                                        [–]Yobanyyo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                                        It probably won't and they'll end up divorced in like 2 years

                                        [–]micmangia 6 points7 points  (1 child)

                                        I got married at 19 and we’re still going strong 8 years later. It can work 💕

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                                          [–]kookiekookarma is a cat 827 points828 points  (76 children)

                                          She’s only 19 😭

                                          [–]handwritinganalyst[🍰] 706 points707 points  (27 children)

                                          Yeah idc what anyone else says but I’ll never think 19 year olds getting married is a good idea phewww.

                                          [–]thidwickthemooseyou shorties never thought I dreamed about rapping hardcore 305 points306 points  (13 children)

                                          I got married at 19. Next month will be our 15th anniversary. It’s worked out for us but also came with a lot of ups and downs and growing up we had to do. It was really hard balancing college and kids and getting into careers.

                                          I tell my oldest all the time not to get married so young, that in retrospect, I understand now I should have been older and had more life experience before getting married.

                                          [–]Mountain_Beach5334 141 points142 points  (4 children)

                                          My parents got married at 20 and have always discouraged us from marrying young, same as you’re saying. They’ve been happy and are good for each other but are very honest about how much harder things were, even though it’s worked well for them.

                                          [–]thidwickthemooseyou shorties never thought I dreamed about rapping hardcore 43 points44 points  (2 children)

                                          Yes, it definitely has not been easy. All marriages take work and have hard times , but I was married at 19 and had my first baby at 20. I was practically a baby myself. I’m 33 now. I don’t regret my husband or kids, but I didn’t really get a chance to experience my 20s and I do feel wistful about that.

                                          We made a lot of sacrifices, had a lot of hard times, and really had to do a lot of growing up. There were several times where I didn’t think we’d be able to fix things or make it work.

                                          You barely know who you are at 19. I didn’t. I know now that getting married so young and fast was me running away from other problems. I tell my kids and nieces and nephews that they should really live life and spend some time on their own, enjoy being young and with fewer big responsibilities.

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                                            [–]handwritinganalyst[🍰] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

                                            There will always be exceptions to the rule, just like there are tons of adults with fully developed brains who don’t stay married. I’m very glad to hear you’ve had a happy and successful marriage! That’s a wonderful testament to the kind of people you both are. I think most people who got married at 19 would agree with you that it probably wouldn’t have killed them to wait, it’s the 19 year olds who want to feel grown up who are going to argue otherwise hahah.

                                            [–]Bay-Area-Tanners 6 points7 points  (1 child)

                                            My parents got married at 19 and 22. Forty-one years later, they’re still happily married but they have had some major ups and downs in that time.

                                            But they both had been forced to grow up early: my mom was shuffled around to various foster homes, and my dad’s father died young, leaving him as “the man of the house”. Maybe when you’ve already been acting as adult for a while, it just doesn’t feel like such a young age for a huge step.

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                                              [–]charmcity3 72 points73 points  (3 children)

                                              Don’t you think 19’s too young to be messed with?

                                              [–]CelebrityTakeDownSpeak Now (Taylor's Version) 27 points28 points  (1 child)

                                              Thankfully he’s only 20 himself.

                                              [–]handwritinganalyst[🍰] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                                              Our girl said it best 🥲

                                              [–]avpuppyfolklore 12 points13 points  (0 children)

                                              totally. ive been following their relationship only as much as one can from an onlooker and it looks like a healthy relationship, but still too young to get married regardless of how good the relationship is. hopefully they just have a long engagement for at least 5 years…

                                              [–]coltsmetsfan614arlington night two 8 points9 points  (6 children)

                                              I feel like it was way more common until around the 90s. All of my friends' parents were married by like 22.

                                              [–]HorseRadish98reputation 8 points9 points  (5 children)

                                              Lol right around when the divorce rate peaked.

                                              [–]MattsonRobbinsfolklore 6 points7 points  (1 child)

                                              almost every single couple i know who got married that young wound up getting divorced. not even kidding.

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                                                  [–]butteryourbiscuitscutting me open then healing me fine 89 points90 points  (5 children)

                                                  and they only started dating in 2021, so...not even three "summers". yikes bikes. good luck to them.

                                                  [–]firewontquellevermore 21 points22 points  (1 child)

                                                  Yeah it’s an interesting way to count 🤨

                                                  [–]DisasterFartisteParis♥ 19 points20 points  (1 child)

                                                  Maybe she’s including southern hemisphere summers

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                                                    [–]ElaienyKgfolklore 22 points23 points  (2 children)

                                                    it's really funny for me seeing someone younger than me getting engaged while I never even had a boyfriend

                                                    [–]SwiftieAtTheDiscolife is emotionally abusive 12 points13 points  (0 children)

                                                    I was engaged at 19, married at 21 and have been married 11 years now. I wouldn’t change a thing, but I cringe a little inside when I see other people getting married so young. It’s weird to know now what people thought about me back then. Good for my parents for never making me feel weird about it, even though I’m sure they weren’t thrilled.

                                                    [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (8 children)

                                                    My grandparents were married at 19 and 20 and they stayed married until my grandfather died in 2010.

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                                                      [–]shy247erDr. Taylor Swift 705 points706 points  (17 children)

                                                      Prenup Millie! Prenup!

                                                      [–]Rrmack 503 points504 points  (12 children)

                                                      I agree but he is also Jon Bon Jovi’s son so probably doing okay in the grand scheme of things.

                                                      [–]Snoopydog13 136 points137 points  (5 children)

                                                      in my head i said, wow his name sounds like Jon Bon Jovi. Now i feel stupid

                                                      [–]moorem2014 19 points20 points  (0 children)

                                                      Same. Now my mind is blown.

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                                                        [–]tripleaw 32 points33 points  (0 children)

                                                        I was gonna say he probs has some 8 figure trust fund LOL

                                                        [–]Nonethelessdotdotdot 25 points26 points  (0 children)

                                                        Regardless a prenup is still a good idea haha

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                                                          [–]neuroticgooner 20 points21 points  (0 children)

                                                          They should get prenups but he’s Jon Bon Jovi’s son so he’s likely not a gold-digger. MBB has probably lost more money to her parents than any boyfriend

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                                                            [–]ampersands-guitarsevermore 427 points428 points  (10 children)

                                                            I love that she used Lover lyrics. Taylor doesn’t want people to only associate her songs with who they believe she wrote them about; she wants them to be repurposed and reimagined and translate into other people’s lives. It’s what makes her a great writer.

                                                            [–]agutema 162 points163 points  (0 children)

                                                            “These songs were once about my life. Now they’re about yours.”

                                                            [–]mlanni 62 points63 points  (4 children)

                                                            I honestly don’t associate any of her songs with her life. All the songs that mean something to me mean something to me in MY life. If a song is ruined for me it’s because I associated it with the wrong person. I’m so glad she found her lover and identifies with the song.

                                                            [–]loveandmagic222 21 points22 points  (1 child)

                                                            I agree! I'm finding it so strange people are saying that the songs have changed for them now that she and Joe aren't together and they are crying listening to them or they won't ever be the same. I just don't feel that way at all.

                                                            [–]mlanni 16 points17 points  (0 children)

                                                            Like my first dance song at my wedding next year is Invisible String. Yes it was written with Joe in mind… but I’m not engaged to Joe. So my interpretation of invisible string is tied directly to my fiancé.

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                                                              [–]SubOptimalAtBest_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                                                              Couldn’t have said it any better

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                                                                [–]ReluctantLawyer 350 points351 points  (8 children)

                                                                Y’all saying she shouldn’t have used that song this week….come on. She’s celebrating her engagement. Let her be happy,

                                                                [–]babyreborndope 141 points142 points  (3 children)

                                                                I think people are just joking

                                                                [–]onepmtuesshe's still twenty-three inside her fantasy 62 points63 points  (1 child)

                                                                Joking or not, the comments I’ve seen since Saturday are super unhinged and embarrassing. People need to learn to separate themselves from a celebrity.

                                                                [–]ReluctantLawyer 30 points31 points  (0 children)

                                                                Honestly after some of the crazy comments that have come out since the breakup I don’t think people are joking anymore.

                                                                [–]nkolenicCause darling Im a monster dressed as a sexy baby 39 points40 points  (1 child)

                                                                Right? Like who cares if Taylor and Joe broke up in the context of her own life? The lyrics are for her and her partner.

                                                                [–]ReluctantLawyer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

                                                                Yup. She looks so happy, it’s adorable. And it’s a good reminder you can still use Taylor’s lovey songs for your own relationship!

                                                                I almost spit out my tea at your flair.

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                                                                  [–]killer_moose_12 216 points217 points  (8 children)

                                                                  At least she didn't marry Drake. Remember that whole thing?

                                                                  [–]withershins1208 124 points125 points  (1 child)

                                                                  She must have aged out 💀

                                                                  [–]killer_moose_12 24 points25 points  (0 children)

                                                                  Nonsense! I bet you can't name 17-18 reasons why that might be true.

                                                                  [–]lenaditafolklore 17 points18 points  (0 children)

                                                                  I tried to forget it 😬

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                                                                    [–]YoloSwaggins44 189 points190 points  (3 children)

                                                                    Millie Bobby Bon Jovi

                                                                    [–]kaosmode 140 points141 points  (1 child)

                                                                    At least dude is only 1 year older than her and not 40

                                                                    [–]b1ame_meRed (Taylor's Version) 36 points37 points  (0 children)

                                                                    Oh… this actually makes me feel a lot better. Like yeah getting young is still scary to me but this feels way better

                                                                    [–]cookpasad autumn boy 132 points133 points  (9 children)

                                                                    Didn’t have to scroll far on Instagram to see people calling her out for mentioning Lover. Sigh

                                                                    [–]wrenstevensfolklore and 1989 😎 285 points286 points  (5 children)

                                                                    Swifties are so embarrassing. The song obviously means something different for Millie and everyone else compared to Taylor

                                                                    [–][deleted] 77 points78 points  (1 child)

                                                                    I mean I am major swiftie and embarrassed that this is how the fandom is being presented to the word because honestly, it's ridiculous and isn't helping the swiftie reputation any

                                                                    [–]Snoo-11861 15 points16 points  (1 child)

                                                                    I just feel like if people thought about what they spill out onto the internet, as if they’re talking to them in person, they’d be more careful. Can you please just imagine Taylor Swift reading your comments and how embarrassed and hurt she’d be?

                                                                    [–]HorseRadish98reputation 9 points10 points  (0 children)

                                                                    Right? Taylor, guaranteed, has songs she wrote just about her relationship that she kept to herself. She put Lover on an album to share with everyone. It's meant to transcend just her relationship.

                                                                    [–]guy_incog_neatodrunk under a streetlight ✨ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

                                                                    sooo embarrassing. 🤦🏻‍♀️

                                                                    [–]onepmtuesshe's still twenty-three inside her fantasy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

                                                                    This whole situation has made me super embarrassed.

                                                                    [–]wellnotyoui gave you all my best memes 17 points18 points  (1 child)

                                                                    I'm single and love jamming out to Paper Rings and feel great listening to songs like Don't Blame Me etc. Like sorry Taylor, but your music is still banger and you'll find me over here dancing to Lavender Haze forever lol

                                                                    Some swifties need to learn how to cope 😬

                                                                    [–]har17h 117 points118 points  (0 children)

                                                                    sometimes i forget she's already 19. stranger things season 1 still feels like it was only a few years ago

                                                                    [–]OkZoomer333my broken bones are mending 96 points97 points  (10 children)

                                                                    Good for her! It’s not for everyone, but I got married young and it was a great decision for me. Hopefully it works out for her

                                                                    [–]GuinessGirlFrom sprinkler splashes to fireplace ashes 21 points22 points  (7 children)

                                                                    Careful, ive been down voted so much on here because I said being married young doesn't have to be a bad thing 😅 apparently you are only allowed one view and anything else is wrong. 19 is indeed young but her fiance is 20. They are adults and if they want to make that choice and are happy then why should they be judged? People get too invested

                                                                    [–]witchyyoneevermore 19 points20 points  (3 children)

                                                                    I got married super young, but I’ve also been through a ton in my teenage years and it’s hard to explain to people that I have too much experience being “young and wild” and just want to settle down 😅

                                                                    [–]GuinessGirlFrom sprinkler splashes to fireplace ashes 6 points7 points  (2 children)

                                                                    I got married mid 20s and am very happy. My point is, people are projecting too much. Millie is essentially a stranger, you nor I know her and their relationship personally. So it seems a bit mean to be making judgements

                                                                    [–]Useful-Soup8161folklore 23 points24 points  (1 child)

                                                                    There’s actually a huge difference between getting married at 19 and getting married in your mid 20s.

                                                                    [–]call_me_Kote 9 points10 points  (2 children)

                                                                    It’s viewed as a bad thing because nothing is hurt by waiting. I married my high school sweetheart, but we did it at 26.

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                                                                      [–]ScoopTheOranges 91 points92 points  (7 children)

                                                                      I’m 32 and not married.. and watching teenagers announce engagements does something to my psyche. But congratulations! :)

                                                                      [–]NoninflammatoryFun 16 points17 points  (3 children)

                                                                      Agree. Just turned 33, reached the 3rd year mark with partner same year…. I finally asked him what he’s waiting for. He said “I don’t know.” Lmao. But I think in a way that meant he’s thinking of it at least …

                                                                      [–]A_70s_Virgomeet me at Midnights 19 points20 points  (1 child)

                                                                      Don’t settle, girl!

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                                                                          [–]Senior-Watercress-87a pathological people pleaser 84 points85 points  (1 child)

                                                                          Taylor liked her post

                                                                          [–]CheeryChickpea 12 points13 points  (0 children)

                                                                          Just came here to say the same thing!

                                                                          [–]helloviolainemy allergies eulogize me 82 points83 points  (3 children)

                                                                          I'm an old Bon Jovi fan and I literally remember this child being born

                                                                          [–]gulfatma 8 points9 points  (2 children)

                                                                          He is the youngest one

                                                                          [–][deleted] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

                                                                          That was my wedding song this summer when we got married 1 day before our 3rd anniversary ♥️

                                                                          I hope it works out for them and they’re happy together… being so young and being celebrities they seem to have the odds against them.

                                                                          [–]lemonhoneyglow 47 points48 points  (24 children)

                                                                          It’s funny how many people are pressed about her age. They are both consenting adults and loaded with $$$. If they end up getting a divorce, it’s not going to be the end of the world for either one of them.

                                                                          [–]butteryourbiscuitscutting me open then healing me fine 76 points77 points  (5 children)

                                                                          you can legally be an adult and still be a kid. she's a teenager. neither of their frontal lobes is finished developing.

                                                                          [–]Exciting_Disaster_66 52 points53 points  (6 children)

                                                                          As a 19 year old, I disagree. I love Millie, but getting married at this age is a terrible idea. Not everything is about money, divorce is hard in a lot of ways. Hopefully it’s a longggggg engagement. I hope they end up living happily ever after, but people are definitely right to be concerned and feel doubtful.

                                                                          [–]Useful-Soup8161folklore 10 points11 points  (6 children)

                                                                          It’s not about the money in their case but more about the fact that they’re only adults in the legal sense. They’re still mentally growing and changing an they’ll be lucky if they’re able to grow and change in the same direction. Most couples that young do not.

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                                                                            [–]HistoryFreak30 50 points51 points  (27 children)

                                                                            Out of the topic but it worries me she is engaged at 19 years old

                                                                            [–]SanLady27 30 points31 points  (1 child)

                                                                            I can only tell myself that she’s lived a lot of life by 19, more than the average person her age so maybe it makes sense. But yah, very, very young

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                                                                              [–]guy_incog_neatodrunk under a streetlight ✨ 32 points33 points  (0 children)

                                                                              she looks SO happy and he looks exactly like his dad.

                                                                              [–]morman15 29 points30 points  (9 children)

                                                                              Man, this thread is depressing with half of you have them going through divorce proceedings before they even say I Do.

                                                                              I’m gonna go ahead and be in the minority in this thread and be the one to say that I am very excited for them. I wish them the absolute best. Her pictures are super cute and I love the caption. Adorable.

                                                                              My sister met her husband at 18, they wanted to get married, but my parents made them wait. They have 12 year old twins now and have been married almost 20 years.

                                                                              Super happy for them and I wish for them a life time of happiness and no judgement on the age. Hopefully they surround themselves with supportive friends who don’t share the same opinion/attitude as basically this entire thread.

                                                                              (Also before anyone comments about my age, I’m 35)

                                                                              [–]cattails17not the first renegade 33 points34 points  (1 child)

                                                                              I’m the same age as her and have never been in a relationship this is WILD

                                                                              [–]Open-Sea8388 19 points20 points  (0 children)

                                                                              So she's loved him since she was 16

                                                                              [–]Starflec✨ When you aim at the devil make sure you don't miss 11 points12 points  (0 children)

                                                                              I still think the lyrics are cute. Also at least he's not a groomer creep like her last bf. His parents were high school sweethearts so he has an example of young love working out.

                                                                              [–]futuristicflapper 10 points11 points  (0 children)

                                                                              … well, at least they’re the same age ? I really hope it works out for her, she seems sweet.

                                                                              [–]gracekelly73 10 points11 points  (0 children)

                                                                              Ron Swanson: Leslie, I got married twice. Both times, I was a lot older than those two. And both marriages ended in divorce... And a burning effigy. Who's to say what works? You find somebody you like, and you roll the dice. That's all anybody can do.

                                                                              [–]wistful_banjomouthfuck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                                                                              Millie we are in mourning

                                                                              [–]AccomplishedKale795Stop checking your bloody mailbox already! 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                                                                              Congratulations Millie!

                                                                              [–]_krabbypattyformulaLover 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                                                                              I used those lyrics as a caption on my 3-year anniversary with my boyfriend!

                                                                              [–]sparklejellyfishWould've Could've Should've SAID NO 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                                                                              I loved the videos of her having the time of her life at Rep tour. She's clearly a big Taylor fan. I wish her all the best ♡

                                                                              [–]choketheboysI survived the 2023 VMAs telecast 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                                                                              Everyone is all shocked about their ages when her fiancés parents are literally high school sweethearts.

                                                                              [–]Fearless_Strategy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                                                                              Millie is gorgeous

                                                                              [–]baycommuterflashbacks and echoes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

                                                                              It’s a sign! She’s Eleven and 19 which equals 30 plus three summers is 33 which is Taylor’s age. /s

                                                                              [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (4 children)

                                                                              Me, a 30-year-old woman, wondering if I’m still too young to get married, seeing this news this morning 😮

                                                                              [–]TheCuriousGeorgette 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                                                                              I think first and foremost we need to remember that Taylor wrote these songs for moments like this, regardless of where Taylor is in her personal life, she put them out in the world to be cherished for THIS reason.

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