My husband (37) had sex with my unconscious body (38) a week ago. I woke up in the middle of the incident. I yelled no, turned around and went back to sleep. In the morning he was jacking off and touching my ass. I sat up in bed and stated that I knew what he did the night before. He lied and said he wasn’t inside of me and that he was just trying to get inside of me. I know my body and I know he was mid-thrust when I caught him. He claimed he has no reason to lie but the truth is he has all the reasons to lie. He’s done this before 6 years ago.

6 years ago I woke up with plan B on the kitchen table. We’d been going through a rough patch and not having sex. So I knew I didn’t purchase that plan B. He stated he’d had sex with me when I was sleeping. I almost broke up with him right then and there but gave him another chance.

Cut to: we are married now with two children. He’s done it again. I’ve asked for a separation. He’s staying at his parents house currently.

We are both going to marriage counseling and each seeing our own therapists. I am questioning if I’m over reacting. I’ve seen all the sonophilia information out there, I’ve tried to do my research on his fetish, but can’t wrap my head around how he would do it again after I said I wasn’t interested in that kind of play.