I believe in reading into subtext, and giving people the benefit of the doubt. I don't read real intent or malice in her words. What I read is a humorous exchange by an excited young woman. I may be wrong, but I wouldn't want to yank her career out from under her feet before I actually observed a pattern of genuine disrespect. I highly doubt she is the type of person who actually goes around honestly telling people to suck her dick and balls, she was being funny (to her, and me) at a time of excitement.

In my experience dealing with professionals in government, the law, banking, etc - professionalism tends to be two-faced. I get the reasoning behind 'professional' behaviour but I find it often simplistic, rote and obnoxious. I'm not surprised this happened to her, but I'm disappointed. She didn't play the game by their rules. Even Homer knew it was overkill and he is the one who should be most offended, he tried to defend her.

Some day once enough brave young women scream at their superiors to suck their balls it might change. Some people have to wear their tattoos openly and proudly before the definition of professional changes.