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Anyone else love gaming but lost that childlike desire to get stuck into a game?
34 here. Full-time work, spouse, and two kids. I’ve been a gamer since my teens and still consider gaming to be my main hobby. But I have a lot less time to play, sometimes as little as 2 hours or less per week (sometimes 5+ hours).
My appetite to keep up with all the latest games has waned with life responsibilities. My time is too valuable to waste on grinding games like I could afford as a young, unmarried lad.
Elden Ring? Haven’t played it, I’m sure it’s amazing. Baldur’s Gate 3? It’s on my list, but I’m in no rush to play it. I’m usually found playing a multiplayer shooter (ex. Overwatch, Valorant) or roguelites (Isaac, Darkest Dungeon 2) because I can enjoy them in both short or long bursts, solo or with friends, without having to be super committed to anything. When I get the urge to play a SP campaign, give me an indie I can clear in 10 hours or less.
I say all this to reassure you it’s normal and your preferences change as you develop. Some of my friends also around 34 used to be more hardcore than me with gaming 10 years ago, and now I’m lucky to see them online once a month.