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My husband cheated on me at the bachelor party
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My husband cheated on me at the bachelor party

12 years ago we got married. I didn’t wanna know all the details of his bachelor party like already know strippers we’re going to be all over him. But in short I know his bachelors was the typical, he went to a strip club, he got very drunk, and they rented a bunch of hotels to sleep over the bar across the street. So that’s all I really knew. But he never told me that he slept with his mail ordered slut. His friends hired 2 escorts for my husband to choose from, he chose the “better looking one”. We reunited with one of his friends and in conversation that came up. My husband looked unhinged while friend was telling the story. I stopped and said “YOU DID WHAT???” I kept yelling and cursing at him and he was so confused why I was actin ghetto on him. I told him he cheated on me but he got mad at me for such an accusation. He said this is literally what bachelor parties for. You are stuck sleeping with only one woman for the rest of your life so you have to get it out and bang a really hott one on the bachelor party. I was like huh????

I literally never heard of this but I’m also not accustomed to American traditions so idk if this is actually true? But from the movies it sometimes looks like he is telling the truth. It sound crazy though. For my bachelorette party I just got an expensive hotel room with all my girl friends and we got drunk and enjoyed ourselves

I just feel so betrayed but it was also more than a decade ago and we have 3 children now, happy marriage, and a life. This bothers me so much that he did this before we get married but it was a long time ago and next time I will never say a man is allowed to go to bachelor party’s bachelor party is to cheat on your soon to be wife??? I am just so shocked this is normal in western wedding traditions


Having strippers at the bachelor/bachelorette party is outright cheating
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Having strippers at the bachelor/bachelorette party is outright cheating

There was a post today taking issue with strippers at bachelor parties bur they didn't take it far enough. It's not just worthy of judgement, it's worthy of break-up. It's cheating. Going to a stripclub is cheating, getting a stripper for your party is cheating.

The whole point of marriage is dedicating yourself to your partner and only your partner, starting it with some kind of pathetic last night as an unmarried person, looking at other bodies, that's appalling. That's disgusting. You're meant to be celebrating the fact you're finally making the bond with your loved one official, not disrespecting them and looking at other people.

The fact that many consider this normal is bizarre to me. People are absolutely revolting.





🌹 The Bachelor 🌹 Post Oprah’s ozempic special live thread
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Joe Park for The Bachelor?
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Joe Park for The Bachelor?

He’s a doctor in his mid 30’s who loves to travel (pre-panny), has a sense of humor, dresses well, and from minor sleuthing seems to not be overly invested in his Instagram presence (huge). Not that caring about social media is bad, but some of the men in this franchise are a lot when it comes to their online habits and it’s nice to see someone who is relatively normal about their output.

The addition of him being a “first” and TPTB getting the diversity points they want is just...... whatever. He is arguably a really great Bachelor candidate.



The Bachelor producers really "screwed the pooch" on the bachelorette
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The Bachelor producers really "screwed the pooch" on the bachelorette
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I love Charity and going into this season I was rooting for her to be bachelorette.

But watching Ariels hometown... not only has she made multiple comments about being Jewish but seeing her father so obviously being an immigrant with English as a second language I think they missed a huge opportunity to showcase diversity in so many ways.

The bachelor has made it clear their idea of diversity is black and white... literally. I want to see other religions showcased. I want to see every ethnicity. And I really love to see an immigrant family featured and wish they would've picked Ariel to check all the boxes.




boycotting The Bachelor
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boycotting The Bachelor
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Genuinely, I’m so tired of ABC’s decisions for male leads. I’m done. I want their numbers to plummet so badly for this upcoming season. I don’t want them to be able to ignore the fact that no one wanted this. They had an extra hour of the show tonight and decidedly didn’t mention anything about Erich’s acts of racism — yet spent THIS much time on the new Bachelor. I just want to scream. The show is supposed to light and fun but it’s just shit at this point, and they’re not doing anything to overhaul how unsatisfying and disingenuous their entire franchise has become.

SPOILER: No one wants _____. He is a boring, basic white man who offers nothing to us as an audience. I’ve never been this passionate or outspoken about their choice for a lead before, but I just needed to say this. I’m so disappointed.




🌹 The Bachelor 🌹 SPOILER post Oprah’s ozempic special live thread
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Official Bachelor Instagram post regarding Chris and the next season of The Bachelor
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Official Bachelor Instagram post regarding Chris and the next season of The Bachelor
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On the next season of the Bachelor, the F1 should get to choose whether they’d rather stay with the Bachelor, or win $500k.
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On the next season of the Bachelor, the F1 should get to choose whether they’d rather stay with the Bachelor, or win $500k.

Think of the drama! The bachelor would constantly have to think, who is here to compete for the money, and who is here for love? The contestants would be claiming that so-and-so is only here for the money and doesn’t care about the bachelor/ette. They wouldn’t even have to invent drama or cast props! The drama would write itself!