A place to get personal things off your chest. Not for opinions, not for relationship advice, and not for preaching.
12 years ago we got married. I didn’t wanna know all the details of his bachelor party like already know strippers we’re going to be all over him. But in short I know his bachelors was the typical, he went to a strip club, he got very drunk, and they rented a bunch of hotels to sleep over the bar across the street. So that’s all I really knew. But he never told me that he slept with his mail ordered slut. His friends hired 2 escorts for my husband to choose from, he chose the “better looking one”. We reunited with one of his friends and in conversation that came up. My husband looked unhinged while friend was telling the story. I stopped and said “YOU DID WHAT???” I kept yelling and cursing at him and he was so confused why I was actin ghetto on him. I told him he cheated on me but he got mad at me for such an accusation. He said this is literally what bachelor parties for. You are stuck sleeping with only one woman for the rest of your life so you have to get it out and bang a really hott one on the bachelor party. I was like huh????
I literally never heard of this but I’m also not accustomed to American traditions so idk if this is actually true? But from the movies it sometimes looks like he is telling the truth. It sound crazy though. For my bachelorette party I just got an expensive hotel room with all my girl friends and we got drunk and enjoyed ourselves
I just feel so betrayed but it was also more than a decade ago and we have 3 children now, happy marriage, and a life. This bothers me so much that he did this before we get married but it was a long time ago and next time I will never say a man is allowed to go to bachelor party’s bachelor party is to cheat on your soon to be wife??? I am just so shocked this is normal in western wedding traditions
