I am talking about non-sexual stuff to spice up the relationship. For example, I give him long massages and make his favorite dinners with lots of protein. Because I do those often, they aren’t feeling very special anymore, so I am looking for something more interesting and intense! What would make you think ‘wow no one has ever done that for me’?
Edit: thank you so much for your answers, my man wil be a happy one :)
Not as bad as it sounds. It was before we started dating. I (25f) and my fiance (33m) are getting married next year. We decided that we would not have anyone at the wedding whom either of us had slept with previously. Then when my fiance makes his list there's one name that jumps out at me. A friend of his who I had a situationship with for about a year...6 months before fiance and I started dating. Now the reason I thought he knew was him and I worked together at the time I slept with this other guy (now 34 M) and he was the one who introduced us. We had gone out for after work drinks one day and his friend was at the bar. He introduce us and I literally went home with his friend that night and continued to date him for long enough i just assumed he had told his friends. We realized we weren't compatible to date so continued fucking for a while til my fiance was single and asked me out. This whole time I assume he knew I'd been with his friend. What do I do? Is this a deal breaker?
TL;DR
I hooked up with someone a while ago and I thought my fiance knew but he didn’t.
