Preaching to the choir, nullandrogyne. There’s a reason the ask box disclaimer shouts at people to not include their agab in their ask. It definitely become a tool used to misgender trans people and for us to psychologically self-harm giving away private information no one else was entitled to. There was a point on this blog where people were including it for EVERY ask no matter what, and while I know it had more to do with people’s own struggles accepting themselves and finding themselves valid, it got to the point where I was struggling to support my own mental health and self-acceptance being inundated with the subliminal idea that I’m not really anything more than my agab.
We’re not our agab. We’re nonbinary. That’s fucking valid. No one is obligated to information like what gender you were coercively assigned at birth.
You are nonbinary, and that’s the full story. Period.
~Mod Pluto