(2/2) take the burden off me explaining and will allow me to come out way more casually by just saying I’m like character X afterward.
If you have netflix, One Day at a Time (season 2) introduces a nonbinary character who IDs specifically as gender non-conforming. Great, heartwarming show that tackles a lot of complex issues. Family friendly.
The character Taylor Mason on Billions is nonbinary and played by a nonbinary actor. I haven’t seen this show, but I know people are very excited about the rep.
The show Good Girls features a questioning/gnc kid (though not one of the main-main characters) and also some of the ways in which their mom supports them figuring themselves out. IIRC the actor isn’t explicitly nonbinary, but they have played girl/boy/questioning parts all equally. Funny show but just came out, so you might not be able to find reruns yet.
I haven’t seen either, but IMDB has a short list of movies with nonbinary characters: Genderfreak and Tomgirl. Both are shorts. Genderfreak may not be appropriate, but Tomgirl features a gnc kid, so should be okay.
IMDB also features a list of “other gender” representation that you might flip through: https://www.imdb.com/list/ls009788538/
It’s not quite the same, but here’s a few documentaries if you’re interested:
Identity: In & Beyond The Binary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jX5CfNWGqjc
Gender: The Space Between: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x7mBLMnaa1c
We Exist: Beyond The Binary: http://weexist.co/
Beyond Binary: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p03r8pgf
I hope one of these strikes you and can be helpful! Good luck!
~Tera