Elder’s descriptions of their genders from Kate Bornstein’s My Gender Workbook, found here.
Don’t let exclusionists, tone policers, gate keepers, queer-is-a-slur, TERFs, and other fascists control the terms you use, tell you that you’re using too many words, convince you that you only need one simplistic and perfect word to sum up the messy human experience, or that your identity is a dirty slur that needs abandoned.
Be as ugly, messy, weird, queer, fucked up, and human as you are. That is your right in existing.
~Mod Pluto