this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here
My wife "jokingly' brought up open relationship. I asked her whether she wants to have sex with other men. She said she has thought about it. I had thought about having sex with other women too. I think its natural. But I think that should be limited to fantasy. I asked whether she had a specific person it mind. I saw the look in her eyes of shame. She said no but she did find some a man attractive and thought about polyamory. She promised that she will never pursue him.
I told her she is free to have sex with that specific person. I am leaving her. Just dont bring a creep near our kids.
What I am not telling her is that I snooped in her phone and she has been reading polyamory blogs. So I already decided to divorce her.
She is shocked by my swift decision (which she doesnt know it 3 weeks in making) and wants to talk. I dont want to talk. I want the divorce to be over with so I can leave her. She is not able to process how it happened so fast.
I guess I could be an asshole for hiding the whole truth. But I think its a small punishment for destroying the marriage. She wouldnt know what hit her and I think she deserves it.
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