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this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here
Bit long, sorry in advance. I now see how easy it is when writing down your thoughts. As I always wondered why people wrote so much.
So my wife (45f) and I (50m) have been married for almost 20 yrs. We have a 16 yr old daughter, and life has been pretty good.
We've had our ups and downs like any marriage. But we worked together through it. We have even done MC a couple of times to get ourselves on the right track. (Mostly IRL stuff and feeling like roomates).
When it comes to household chores. I've always cleaned the house, as I'm a bit OCD with cleaning due to growing up in a house with roaches as a kid.
She takes care of the laundry, and we split making dinners on days I'm off as I work 12 hours a day, 4 days a week. Kiddo takes care of the dishes.
So here in lies the issue. The wife is going through purimenopause. She's been super emotional and a bit unlike herself for the last 6 months or so. She is taking meds to help even out her hormones, but it's taking time.
One day, she is overly nice, the next day complaining about every little thing and getting all bent out of shape.
So yesterday morning was one of her bad days. I forgot to set up the coffee pot to make coffee in the morning. When I went down, she was all bent out of shape over it. I tried my normal tactic of apologizing, as I had a migraine and went to bed early and just forgot.
Told her I would make coffee in a bit as I just woke up and needed a little bit to get the morning fog out of my head. Typical thing for me in the morning.
She didn't like this answer, so as I went to sit on the couch, she threw her coffee cup at me. Causing it to smash into my head, breaking and splitting my head open.
At first, I was pissed that she actually threw something at me like WTF, but then felt liquid (blood obviously as I couldn't see it) going down my neck. I put my hand on it, pulled it back, thinking it was coffee, then saw the blood.
Of course, at the sight of this, my wife all the sudden freaked out, screamed at my daughter to get a towel. All the while apologizing to me and crying, stating she was sorry.
We headed to the ER and had our daughter drive as wife couldn't as she was a hot mess. Luckily, it wasn't so deep that it needed stitches, and they used that glue stuff.
The thing is, I had a rough childhood/home life. I was physically abused by my mom all the way up until I left at 18. My wife knows this, and when she did what she did, it brought back all those memories so long ago forgotten.
I love my wife, but I swore to myself that I would never be in a place where I'd be abused ever again.
And now I don't know know if I would be the AH if I file for divorce because of this.
I know her hormones are partially to blame, but also know she's an adult and responsible for her actions.
I guess I'm just looking for advice wondering if AITAH if I decide to leave.
Maybe I just needed to vent a little, too.
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That problem is losing touch with gamers and making games for the investor board instead of the players.
Helldivers 2 is successful cause it took the risk to be special, fun and a game. While franchises that would have fit perfectly would rather not bring out a game at all, rather than taking any risk.
If my information serves right, Halo shut down the idea for a similar game in the halo universe... a universe most of us love. Why? Because the board did not like the risk.
Can you imagine this game would have come out with the face of starcraft? Or halo? Or starwars? Or Mass effect? Or Doom...or...
But no, a rather small studio brings this banger as a sequel to a top-down shooter. They took the risk, and it paid off. So I hope bigger Studios holding some of our beloved IPs "hostage" take notice.
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