this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here
My husband and I have two children, this relates to the oldest, who's 15. There's another boy who he shares a couple classes with, who's awful. He calls kids slurs, writes them on desks, in their notebooks, not to mention pushes around some of the kids who aren't white. We've gotten the school involved multiple times, but the worst he got was a 2 day suspension, and after awhile the school got sick of our complaints and started ignoring them.
Well the kids took matters into their own hands, apparently he shoved a girl into her locker, and her friend or boyfriend started fightinghim. Eventually something like half a dozen or more were on him, and it took multiple teachers showing up to drag them off. A few of the kids got away (The school cameras are awful) and the bully ended up in the ICU.
The night after, our son told us he was one of the kids who got away. Apparently he was as sick of him as the rest, and got involved. In the end, with how much of a racist bully he was, I didn't want to punish our son for teaching him a lesson. My husband disagrees, conisdering how badly the boy was beat.