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I honestly can't believe I'm asking this, but my boyfriend has gotten so mad that I'm feeling a little crazy now.
Both 34, he had a terrible marriage before me that ended in a dead bedroom, and he's determined to never go back to that life again. Understood, I think that sucked for him to experience.
So now he wants a prenup and literally write in the pernup that we will have sex x amount of times a week, or else I get absolutely nothing in the divorce.
I had already agreed to a 50/50 prenup of marital assets, and we keep what we came into the marriage with. Now that's not enough for him. He wants me to "prove" that I won't stop having sex with him in the future. I tell him I can't prove the future, and putting something in writing doesn't prove that.
Now he says I must have a guilty conscience if I won't sign these terms, because if I'm so certain it won't happen, then what's the problem? But to me, it makes me feel like a sex slave and not a loved wife or partner.